Allison Crow

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WELCOME – I knew you would get here right on time.

You’ve Done Everything Right.

So Why Does It Feel Like Everything Is Falling Apart?

You’ve mastered over-functioning, people-pleasing, and keeping everything together. You’ve built a successful life, career, or business. But lately, something feels… off. The strategies that got you here—perfectionism, pushing through, prioritizing others—aren’t working anymore.

Maybe you’re…

  • Feeling burned out, emotionally drained, or unsure of who you are outside of achievement.
  • Suspecting you’ve been masking ADHD or autism all along—but only now seeing it.
  • Realizing the rules you’ve lived by (patriarchy, religion, productivity culture) were never built for your thriving.
  • A business owner or leader who’s tired of playing by exploitative models and ready to do things your way.

Welcome to the Wild Edge of Being Human.

This isn’t failure—it’s an unraveling. And it’s an opportunity to build something new: self-trust, emotional regulation, and calm confidence.

I’m Allison Crow. I help smart, secretly striving humans unhook from over-functioning, soften the quiet struggle, & build self-trust. 

It’s time to tend to what’s beneath the surface.

Midlife is not a crisis. It’s a call back to yourself. I can help.

EXPLORE COACHING OPTIONS 

Transformational, Self-Relationship, & IFS Coaching for Humans in Life or Business

(uniquely experienced in working with small business owners and professionals)

Calm Confidence & Inner Self-Trust

Allison Crow - Wearing Cowboy Boots and smiling bright - IFS Coaching for Business Owners exuding the energy of self-trust and joy.

Are you a midlife human, a heart-centered business owner, or a highly successful professional who’s tired of the burnout cycle? Maybe you’re a recovering overachiever who’s ready for more calm, less hustle and grind, and more authentic self-trust.

Perhaps the mask of excellence and people-pleasing has brought you success but left you disconnected from your true self, leading to emotional exhaustion and the feeling that something is missing.

Perhaps you were a high-masking woman, socialized to be chosen and fit in instead of choosing and creating on your own terms. 

Late-diagnosed ADHD or Autism? Or both – AuDHD?  I’ve got you. 

Deconstructing from religion or just now seeing the breadcrumbs of how the patriarchy has suppressed your vitality and wormed its way into your brain.  I get it.  Deconstructing from the oppressive systems we were raised in (and that are rewarded by society) is hard!  I’ve been there, and I can help. 

Been a business owner for years and done following the model and want to cultivate a fresh vitality and value-oriented business without exploiting yourself or others?  I can help. 

It’s time to tend to what’s beneath the surface. You’ve built the success, achieved the milestones, and checked off the wins, but now something deeper is asking for attention. You know that connecting with your authentic self will lead to better work and a more fulfilling life.

Whether you’re a small business owner or an independent professional, this phase of life requires your whole self. My coaching spans both deep emotional work and practical strategy—from soulful self-discovery to cultivating healthier relationships, increased emotional resilience, and navigating this season holisticaly, deeply – and that will lead to greater purpose and joy.   With over 20 years of experience, I’ve got a toolkit full of strategies to help you know, love and trust yourself. 

Find out about ways we can work together here.

MY BACKGROUND:

I started my coaching career as a sales coach, trainer, and small business coach. Over the years, I have learned and applied various modalities in different settings. Now, I bring a human-centered and connected approach to all my coaching and training. I believe that human well-being is more important than mechanical productivity, which can be short-lived and harmful. I have been trained in IFS Coaching (Internal Family Systems L1- Practitioner), Expressive Arts, and Compassionate Inquiry. Helping my clients develop nervous system awareness, emotional agility, and SELF-connection enhances and deepens their personal and professional transformation. With 30 years of leadership experience, 20 years of coaching practice, and ongoing education, I have the inner and outer strategy and support to help you cultivate and create better in your inner and outer worlds. 

Please see my About Allison page for more about my education, experience, training, and credentials.   

THis is a hand drawn chart of Values and Skills. The values listed are: Human Relationships, personal growth, self-trust, self-leadership, creative being and doing, authenticity, transparent leadership, prosperity, gardners not machines, simplicity, Breathe Yall, and Play & humor. The Skills Training and Experience listed in this image are: 19 years of profitable self employment, 17 years paid coaching, sales/business trained and trainers, expressive arts facilitator, visual coach certification, M.Ed., Educational Psychology Focus, Internal family systems L1 Trained, Compassionate Inquiry Trained, Strategic and Logistic, Soul-Full and Mystic, Profitable and sustainable over fame/celebrity, Publishes author, funny as fuck, and key note speaker. This image was created in 2022.

If you have a question or just want to connect, I’d love to hear from you. Contact me:

 allison@allisoncrow.com

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Book

Imagine fully trusting yourself – to be the real you all the way to the edges of life.

Book image for Unarmored - Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human By Author Allison Crow and IFS Book, Inspirational Memoir, Personal Development Book

Not your perfect performative plastic self, but your wild, messy, human self – your authentic self. What would it take for you to trust yourself, to BE yourself, and genuinely befriend all of yourself?
Imagine the quiet and clear confidence of just being at home in all of you. Undoing the conditioning of the outside world and making a commitment to authenticity can be a wobbly journey. Vulnerable? Yes. Will it require a few metric tons of self-compassion? Yes. Will you need to learn a few emotional agility skills and nervous system regulation skills? Yes. Worth it? All the yesses ever.

MEET YOUR PARTS:


If you wan
t to be at home in yourself, you must be willing to meet all parts of you – especially the parts that have been exiled, vilified, and shamed – that make us most uncomfortable. Meeting and befriending all parts of yourself is the first step to trusting yourself so that you can genuinely BE yourself. It takes more than desire. This sacred path requires us to cultivate connection, calm, and compassion. It requires curiosity to activate the clarity and courage we seek.

Unarmored: Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human (Click the title to purchase)

by Allison Crow is a different kind of leadership book – a book of SELF-leadership. It’s not quite a road map, but certainly a delicious set of ingredients, tools, and full-color images that will equip and inspire you if you want to live a more Soulful and glorious human experience.

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💛 Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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