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Friday Night Wine Down…. the most important skill ANYONE can master

June 1, 2018

Friday Night Wine Down…. the most important skill ANYONE can master <3

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  1. Diane Bleck says: June 1, 2018 at 11:20 pm

    Hi honey. Got my wine on the deck!

  2. Diane Bleck says: June 1, 2018 at 11:21 pm

    Been praying for your family.

  3. Diane Bleck says: June 1, 2018 at 11:22 pm

    Yes. Doubt comes every day. And I had a bully email today – ooff!!

  4. Diane Bleck says: June 1, 2018 at 11:23 pm

    Hi Michelle!

  5. Michelle Bastian says: June 1, 2018 at 11:23 pm

    Hello beautiful!

  6. Michelle Bastian says: June 1, 2018 at 11:24 pm

    Hi Diane ?

  7. Michelle Bastian says: June 1, 2018 at 11:24 pm

    Hi Diane

  8. Diane Bleck says: June 1, 2018 at 11:24 pm

    H.A.L.T.

  9. Michelle Bastian says: June 1, 2018 at 11:24 pm

    I do that too!! With my car!

  10. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:26 pm

    Hi! I’m having wine too

  11. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:26 pm

    Cheers

  12. Eric Luczak says: June 1, 2018 at 11:27 pm

    Ha I wanted to go get my masters in Social Work but ended up not doing it

  13. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:27 pm

    LOLOL, cracked me up!

  14. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:33 pm

    Risk taking is so scary!

  15. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:33 pm

    Eeeekkkkkk!

  16. Freddie Kemp says: June 1, 2018 at 11:33 pm

    Fuck it – let’s do it!

  17. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:33 pm

    Fear!

  18. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:34 pm

    It’s shutting down

  19. Michele Lehmann Brown says: June 1, 2018 at 11:34 pm

    Brain tries to protect me and shut down taking the risk

  20. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:34 pm

    Finding all the reasons why it’s a bad idea

  21. Freddie Kemp says: June 1, 2018 at 11:35 pm

    Awesome – I wanna do those flying those suits

  22. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:36 pm

    I’m gonna run

  23. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:36 pm

    :p

  24. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:37 pm

    Lol.. fuck it….

  25. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:37 pm

    I don’t want a damn job again..

  26. Michelle Bastian says: June 1, 2018 at 11:38 pm

    Yes! My run is arguing with myself internally

  27. Lynette McCormack says: June 1, 2018 at 11:39 pm

    Biggest Hugs!

  28. Freddie Kemp says: June 1, 2018 at 11:40 pm

    I watched Hans Zimmer masterclass and he’s v comfortable NOT knowing how to score a movie at the outset. His thinking I could relate to… he then bit by bit figures out new ideas ?

  29. Freddie Kemp says: June 1, 2018 at 11:40 pm

    I watched Hans Zimmer masterclass and he’s v comfortable NOT knowing how to score a movie at the outset. His thinking I could relate to… he then bit by bit figures out new ideas

  30. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:42 pm

    But did you die???

  31. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:44 pm

    And you can live through it

  32. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:46 pm

    They make you fell like crap though..lol

  33. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:47 pm

    O god that is soooooo me!

  34. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:48 pm

    Lol, so true

  35. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:49 pm

    That’s what I’m gambling on right now… I MIGHT win

  36. Anita Barfoot Berg says: June 1, 2018 at 11:50 pm

    Hey ?

  37. Stacy Petrossian says: June 1, 2018 at 11:50 pm

    Hello ❀️

  38. Anita Barfoot Berg says: June 1, 2018 at 11:51 pm

    Sure does

  39. Anita Barfoot Berg says: June 1, 2018 at 11:52 pm

    They are just lessons ?

  40. Anita Barfoot Berg says: June 1, 2018 at 11:52 pm

    They are just lessons

  41. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:52 pm

    Everything happens for a reason, and every reason has a purpose

  42. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:53 pm

    And a lesson to learn

  43. Chaand Malik says: June 1, 2018 at 11:55 pm

    ❀ ❀ ❀ ❀ ❀ ❀

  44. Kristie Taylor says: June 1, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    He knew

  45. Kristie Taylor says: June 2, 2018 at 12:03 am

    Hi nerd!

  46. Amina Aitsi-Selmi says: June 2, 2018 at 12:03 am

    Thanks for sharing with us Allison.

  47. Kristie Taylor says: June 2, 2018 at 12:04 am

    Thank you sweetie! You definitely helped me

  48. Amina Aitsi-Selmi says: June 2, 2018 at 12:04 am

    I have a good couch

  49. Freddie Kemp says: June 2, 2018 at 12:04 am

    Make it happen!

  50. Freddie Kemp says: June 2, 2018 at 12:04 am

    Name a date, let’s do it!

  51. Michelle Jeanette says: June 2, 2018 at 12:05 am

    Hi hunee

  52. Michelle Jeanette says: June 2, 2018 at 12:05 am

    Happy Friday Happy Hour

  53. Michelle Jeanette says: June 2, 2018 at 12:05 am

    What you planning???

  54. Michelle Bastian says: June 2, 2018 at 12:05 am

    Love this! And definitely this last month for me both physically and mentally has been tough. Heck the last 48hrs has been tough…and now I need to say there there I see you, with my feelings.

    • Allison Crow says: June 2, 2018 at 12:16 am

      Yes…be so tender with your thoughts and feelings. In my experience they tend to soften when we are tender.

    • Michelle Bastian says: June 2, 2018 at 12:21 am

      They have. Throughout today I’ve challenged the negatives with truths. I have been extremely gentle today. I am 3 weeks out from a huge spinal fusion surgery. I ran into issues. Today, I took a breath and said, it’s okay to take care of you, it’s okay to ask for help, you are worth it. I now have pain meds back on board. And my mind is in a much better place today. And so I continue…

    • Allison Crow says: June 2, 2018 at 12:48 am

      Michelle Bastian yes. It takes time. Your body has been through a major ordeal.

  55. Freddie Kemp says: June 2, 2018 at 12:05 am

    Norwegian airlines is super cheap from London

  56. Kristie Taylor says: June 2, 2018 at 12:05 am

    We could incorporate an art retreat

  57. Michelle Jeanette says: June 2, 2018 at 12:06 am

    Thank God for family!???

  58. Amina Aitsi-Selmi says: June 2, 2018 at 12:06 am

    September’s a big b’day…Would love to celebrate on a circular couch in the sun having deep conversations and laughing. Love you,
    Allison.

    • Allison Crow says: June 2, 2018 at 12:09 am

      Lets do it!

  59. Damon Proeger says: June 2, 2018 at 12:07 am

    Lol! Cedar Park

  60. Michelle Jeanette says: June 2, 2018 at 12:07 am

    Love you too!!!

  61. Michelle Jeanette says: June 2, 2018 at 12:08 am

    Breathe it in… All is well

  62. Kristie Taylor says: June 2, 2018 at 12:08 am

    Cheers!

  63. Helen May says: June 2, 2018 at 12:11 am

    Sorry to have missed you Allison!

  64. Helen May says: June 2, 2018 at 12:12 am

    Sending loving your way!

  65. Kimberly Mae LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 12:17 am

    so many big hugs, Beautiful lady!!!!!

  66. Kimberly Mae LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 12:18 am

    OMG Doubt is so part of every day with me! o.O

  67. Kimberly Mae LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 12:30 am

    my brain shuts down

  68. Kimberly Mae LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 12:31 am

    overwhelm — ugh … shutdown … procrastinate … kettle corn and Ancient Aliens

    • Allison Crow says: June 2, 2018 at 12:47 am

      I love ancient aliens!!!

    • Kimberly Mae LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 1:18 pm

      Right?!?!

  69. Kimberly Mae LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 1:30 am

    So so so much love and hugs, Allison!!!! I will fight tooth and nail to come see you in October <3 <3 <3

  70. Shannon Peebles says: June 2, 2018 at 1:51 am

    Hello from a Replay Viewer. πŸ˜€

  71. Shannon Peebles says: June 2, 2018 at 2:00 am

    Bwahahaha! I can’t imagine you in that role of teaching women to be “proper Christian Wives.”

  72. Shannon Peebles says: June 2, 2018 at 2:04 am

    <-- 38-year-old representin'!

  73. Shannon Peebles says: June 2, 2018 at 2:09 am

    My brain often goes into Freeze. I don’t back away from the cliff, I stand 7 feet from the edge staring at it.

  74. Shannon Peebles says: June 2, 2018 at 2:17 am

    I won’t die. I DO get to write it off my taxes. πŸ˜‰

  75. Shannon Peebles says: June 2, 2018 at 2:38 am

    I have more friends in Austin than I do in Olympia. Hehehehe

  76. Shannon Peebles says: June 2, 2018 at 2:39 am

    Thank you, love! I”m glad I got to watch the replay. <3

  77. KT Ronshausen says: June 2, 2018 at 12:45 pm

    SARK! One of my first as well ?

  78. KT Ronshausen says: June 2, 2018 at 12:45 pm

    SARK! One of my first as well

  79. Kimberly Mae LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 1:46 pm

    Allison, I just have to say that I’m so happy that you are in my life ????????‍♀️

  80. Kimberly Gypsy LoSavio says: June 2, 2018 at 1:46 pm

    Allison, I just have to say that I’m so happy that you are in my life

  81. Margaret Hardway says: June 2, 2018 at 5:50 pm

    Happy Hour sounds good

  82. Margaret Hardway says: June 2, 2018 at 5:51 pm

    Camp starheart sounds extraordinary ?⭐️⭐️

  83. Margaret Hardway says: June 2, 2018 at 5:51 pm

    Camp starheart sounds extraordinary

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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