Today is a peak into a private one on one coaching session with my long time client Joelle Bohart. This podcast and post is shared with full permission.
Joelle and I met many years ago back in the real estate days. She was a client back then for learning how to be a productivity coach and she has been a member of Soulies for a very long time… since the early days… and she is also a part of my Spark, Unhustle, and Flow Women’s Circle.
Joelle and I have had many conversations about the relationship she’s had with her mom and the way she grew up. When I first met Joelle in real estate she was really putting on this perfectionist look right, be right, do right persona that wasn’t the authentic Joelle.
She let go of that lady, let her hair go wild and curly, and started wearing colorful clothes and it’s been beautiful to watch her journey. In he last 3 years she was one of the top 10 globally in her real estate company.
She’s been in Real Estate for 25-30 years and is also a certified Qoya teacher.
She and her husband moved this month from CA to TX, they sold their home and moved across the country to create a new life in Texas. Joelle is at a new space in her life where she doesn’t know if she’s going to pick up real estate here or completely reinvent herself and she’s giving herself permission to explore and create and just be but she’s also moved her Mother to Texas with her.
Imagine a move across the country, a new city, and doing all the things you have to do including building a new house and temporarily living in a rental house. All these outer stimulations are causing some turbulence.
So we pick up today with some very sweet parts work where we are not only acknowledging the inner child in her we are working with the relationship with her mother, which can be derogatory and reminded Joelle of when she was little.
We are helping her to get back to self-trust and self-leadership and soothing the parts of her that are feeling tender and frustrated and protected.
Thank you, Joelle, for sharing so openly as you work through your burdens.
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