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Ep #3: Better Work: Create Clients with these Sales Basics

January 20, 2017

A member of my community asked me “Allison, how can I make a greater impact with my marketing to find heart-centered clients for my business?”

And my brain when straight back to the basics of client creation that I learned in the Real Estate Sales industry.  And frankly, my history in RE is half of what makes me so great at creating clients now, and so I am going to bust out a few fundamentals for you here today.  

Today’s show is more brass tacks- like in sports, there are some fundamentals that every player and team need to know.  Lay-ups, free-throws, and rebounds before alley oops and half court shots.  
We’re gonna dive into some Sales Fundamentals:  And some of the language may trigger you, or may initially feel cringy to you.  Take a deep breath and remember that it is your heart in all of this that matters – not the labels I’m going to use today to identify these aspects of client creation basics.

 

REFLECTION QUESTIONS

 

  • Take inventory of the last 10-20 Paid clients you have had.  Trace specifically both the source of the client and where the conversion to client was made.
    Take inventory of all the efforts (both marketing and prospecting) that you have put in over the last year. Identify what are your best sources for both exposure (increasing audience/database) and for converting clients. This can be a good exercise for helping you realize what is working.  
  • Open your heart and mind to learning about sales skills – perhaps take a sales skills class.
  • Take a look back through all email, message, and texts….. Have you left anyone hanging? Follow up with those voice to voice conversations – even better face to face.
  • Are you needy and creepy? Or are you patient, relaxed, and providing expertise and value?
  • Check in with your Divine Business Manager (intuition) and ask her what guidance and advice she has for your client creation.

 

 

 

 

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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