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It’s Handled – Solve the Problem You Fear The Most

March 1, 2020

 

Want to stop worrying so much? It’s Handled -Solve the Problem You Fear The Most.

What do you make up in your mind that it would cost you to be brave enough to be you?

The last 15 days have been massive in terms of insight, behavior change, transformation, and cash flow for me. And then this week I had my first day of feeling that flow slowed and had some insights about it. Insights that will be true for all of us. 

One of these insight is that many of us subconscious and chronically do what we think we need to do to be loved or liked. Fear of rejection and the need for approval is a deep primary protective way of being we all have. 

It’s so subtle but many humans make ourselves small, we do something- whatever that thing is- to make ourselves feel safe, connection, love, security, acknowledgement, etc.

But here’s my insight: when you stop being mean to yourself, stop doing things out of fear, you actually begin to get your shit together. 

We can do that by solving the problem we fear most in our minds first. 

Today on the podcast I’m diving more into this idea and what is possible when we stop being mean to ourselves mentally and solve the problems we fear the most- it can set us free!

 


PS- Camp Star Heart 2020 registration is still open! Camp Star Heart is like a summer camp/retreat for grown ass women who love to take a weekend away to REMEMBER who they really are – because they know this investment of time, energy, and money – will permeate the rest of their lives and work. Our theme this year is Both/And, learn more about what all is included and get in while I still have some spots available! https://allisoncrow.com/camp-star-heart-2020/

 

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It is Sunday morning. I've spent more than the la It is Sunday morning.  I've spent more than the last 15 days (really more) taking care of other people mostly.  This morning - this day, is for ME.  I'm itching to settle into my own SELF-Presence.  And the itch is a part of re-acclimation.  The last 15+ days were special circumstances that required a burst of increased and intense care and delivery.  Could I sustain EVERY Day being like that? I have no desire to move that much or that fast on a regular basis. 
 

This morning, I step back into slow, back into nourishing practices.  And I allow it to be glitchy instead of smooth. I allow it to be what it is. 

This morning is for the Sacred within...and this afternoon a dip in my pool, and grilling on the patio with my man. 

Tomorrow is my favorite - Monday mornings with Soulies...and Tuesday, a new sacred leadership circle opens 💛 - 

Both/And, BEcoming, Woman of Range, CULTIVATE 🌿 and miracles 🐞 one after the other for my family. I'll take it!  Even if it involved me doing the realtorish thing for a week straight. 😵‍💫

PS.  I have renewed appreciation for my real estate agent friends, and for those caring for either kids or parents - that is some serious overstimulation living. 

No matter where I am, here in my sacred studio office, or out and about, or in the tornado of my thinking...my breath brings me home.
Hello Strong Successfull Woman—- woman identifyi Hello Strong Successfull Woman—- woman identifying or non binary human. who might be a lil weary and looking for a nurturing, light, deep, special - with a splash of creativity and full of Self-Leadership, Cultivation, and Creation life coaching for business people group- my year long leadership circle start this coming 💛Tuesday. 

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+ a gift year of the Soulies Membership if you desire. 

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Achievement level business owners and history of business success and stability that aren’t in the ‘how-to” and early growth phase - are the best fit.  Reinvention after previous solid success also a fit. 

Oh and… I lowered my leadership circle fees from 18k to 12k - honestly it’s easy to get sucked into the “raise your rates” game and with inflation, I just didn’t want to - and I wanna get off the “do what you’re ’supposed’ to train of mass media- I wanna truly cultivate my life and work- and often that goes against the grain. 

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