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Do you know your three things? How to keep gently moving forward when things are wonky <3

October 6, 2019

Do you know your three things? How to keep gently moving forward when things are wonky <3

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Advanced Personal Development Life Coach for Experienced Business Owners & ExecsπŸ’›Author, Art, & Dogs

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  1. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:26 pm

    Bummed I couldn’t make it

  2. John Rodriquez says: October 4, 2019 at 7:28 pm

    I love facing with hoomans πŸ™‚

  3. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:28 pm

    I love your 3 things.

  4. Dawn Frentz says: October 4, 2019 at 7:30 pm

    Same

  5. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:30 pm

    Gah I hit the tipping point .

  6. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:30 pm

    #truth

  7. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:35 pm

    Love on my people, get outside, ground/meditate

  8. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:36 pm

    You nailed it

  9. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:36 pm

    Yes for me it’s coaching and helping people. Sounds heavy when I’m feeling down and then I always feel amazing afterwards

  10. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:38 pm

    Busted ?

  11. Susan Palmer Wood says: October 4, 2019 at 7:38 pm

    Busted

  12. John Rodriquez says: October 4, 2019 at 7:40 pm

    I love the concept of an embodied forward facing action step that connects me with someone else ❀️

  13. John Rodriquez says: October 4, 2019 at 7:40 pm

    I love the concept of an embodied forward facing action step that connects me with someone else

  14. Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    1. Connect deeply 2. Take care of something I’ve been procrastinating about. 2. Write.

  15. John Rodriquez says: October 4, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    I think that’s a missing link for me to explore ?

    • Allison Crow says: October 4, 2019 at 11:46 pm

      John Rodriquez so glad you got a hit.

  16. John Rodriquez says: October 4, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    I think that’s a missing link for me to explore

  17. Farrah Brown La Pan says: October 4, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    Hey Allison! Thank you for the reminder. One embodied, forward-facing action step! ?

  18. Farrah Brown La Pan says: October 4, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    Hey Allison! Thank you for the reminder. One embodied, forward-facing action step!

  19. Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 7:43 pm

    With you in that!!!

  20. Farrah Brown La Pan says: October 4, 2019 at 7:45 pm

    Jarrod, just one thing…

  21. Henry Beyer says: October 4, 2019 at 8:34 pm

    Like your hair

    • Allison Crow says: October 4, 2019 at 11:46 pm

      Henry Beyer thank you.

  22. Angela Paris says: October 4, 2019 at 11:46 pm

    I was having an off day and listened to a couple of your lives….just want to thank you for sharing your wisdom and time.

  23. Angela Paris says: October 4, 2019 at 11:49 pm

    I did two things that u suggested to raise my frequency ….it worked. Feeling unstuck!

  24. Angela Paris says: October 4, 2019 at 11:49 pm

    You are awesome, A.C.!

  25. Mary Tirrell says: October 5, 2019 at 1:19 am

    Replay – your hair looks FAB!!

  26. Tariq Aziz says: October 5, 2019 at 10:03 pm

    So nice

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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