Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish.

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Here’s my example this morning:
 
I start to journal… “what if XYZ was possible… “
and then I get smacked in the head with,

“but love what is.”
 
Well, which is it? Love what is or have the courage to change what is?
Our thinking parts and shoulds and try so hard to get it right parts battling it out.
That’s always a good sign to drop deeper into your belly and heart and listen.
 
Call for your true SELF to come forward and whisper inner truth to you – instead of taking on the mandate of the gurus and leaders and coachy-coachy and anything outside of you.
 
Those tools and rules aren’t bad – in fact, you have a Mary Poppins bag of resources, but in any giv
en moment, seek your inner wisdom for guidance on what tools, if any to use.
 
Today, my inner knowing says, “Toss the intellect – education, podcasts, and learning and be with the flowers and birds, make art and poetry, and practice smiling.”
 
What does your inner knowing whisper to you?
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The words meet yourself, listen to yourself, hear yourself, witness and hold your most tender parts. This connection is a sacred unburdening to lightness, and to greater self-trust, confidence, and courage over a red-toned love painting by Allison Crow

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