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Which of these 8 things are you ACTUALLY selling?

November 16, 2017

What are you really selling your clients? Know which of these 8 things you are really selling your clients and it will make your marketing and selling easier.

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Advanced Personal Development Life Coach for Experienced Business Owners & ExecsπŸ’›Author, Art, & Dogs

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  1. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:35 pm

    yes absolutely

  2. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:35 pm

    all good girlfriend

  3. Deelle Hines says: November 14, 2017 at 9:35 pm

    Hey girl!!

  4. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:38 pm

    I DO

  5. Jo Barnard says: November 14, 2017 at 9:40 pm

    Hey beàuty ❀

  6. Jo Barnard says: November 14, 2017 at 9:40 pm

    Hey beΓ uty

  7. Steph Levine says: November 14, 2017 at 9:42 pm

    Basic needs

  8. Jo Barnard says: November 14, 2017 at 9:43 pm

    Freedom from fear & pain

  9. Steph Levine says: November 14, 2017 at 9:43 pm

    No I️ was listing your list of Ned’s – hit that too fast Enjoyment- freedom from pain-

  10. Deelle Hines says: November 14, 2017 at 9:43 pm

    Eeek what were the last two again?

  11. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    3. Freedom from fear/pain.
    1.To Feel Good
    4. Sexual Connection
    5. Comfortable living way of life

  12. Helen May says: November 14, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    freedom from fear and thinking, care and comfort of loved ones, feel good, enjoyment of life

  13. Helen May says: November 14, 2017 at 9:45 pm

    protection of loved ones

  14. Steph Levine says: November 14, 2017 at 9:45 pm

    8)Social approval , connection , acceptance. 7) care and protection of loved ones 6) achievement 5)

  15. Jo Barnard says: November 14, 2017 at 9:45 pm

    Care & protection of loved ones as I move into funeral celebrancy too xx

  16. Steph Levine says: November 14, 2017 at 9:46 pm

    Enjoyment of life !!!

  17. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:47 pm

    its the value we bring

  18. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:51 pm

    PREACH

  19. Lana King Howell says: November 14, 2017 at 9:52 pm

    doTERRA

  20. Jo Barnard says: November 14, 2017 at 9:52 pm

    I’m getting in bed with you now Allison!! Xxx

  21. Helen May says: November 14, 2017 at 9:52 pm

    it’s 5 to 10 p.m here in Ireland!

  22. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:54 pm

    SO true i am gonna cry again

  23. Steph Levine says: November 14, 2017 at 9:56 pm

    What I️ learned – primarily from you – life coaching is business coaching and vice versa

  24. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 9:56 pm

    It’s backwards! ?

  25. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 9:56 pm

    It’s backwards!

  26. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 9:56 pm

    Love that list!!!

  27. Vicky Hemming says: November 14, 2017 at 9:58 pm

    Hello you x

  28. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:58 pm

    YES GIRL HAPPY HOUR

  29. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 9:58 pm

    Connection was the big one for me!!!

  30. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    Community β™₯️β™₯️β™₯️β™₯️

  31. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    Community

  32. Vicky Hemming says: November 14, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    Mmmmn connection ❀️❀️❀️

  33. Vicky Hemming says: November 14, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    Mmmmn connection

  34. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    i feel like a bit of an Allison Crow disciple

  35. Vicky Hemming says: November 14, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    Hehehehe Tracey

  36. Tracey Lee Wallace says: November 14, 2017 at 10:00 pm

    RutRoh

  37. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:01 pm

    Can you put that in a pdf for the soul-full success biz peeps. Pretty please ?

  38. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:01 pm

    Can you put that in a pdf for the soul-full success biz peeps. Pretty please

  39. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:02 pm

    And when you lived in Denton!! We were so close ?

  40. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:02 pm

    And when you lived in Denton!! We were so close

  41. Vicky Hemming says: November 14, 2017 at 10:02 pm

    SYHSYW ❀️❀️❀️

  42. Vicky Hemming says: November 14, 2017 at 10:02 pm

    SYHSYW

  43. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:03 pm

    Thank you ???

  44. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:04 pm

    ? happy hour ?

  45. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:04 pm

    happy hour

  46. Vicky Hemming says: November 14, 2017 at 10:04 pm

    Love an AC Happy Hour

  47. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:04 pm

    Gotta get my boys from school first!!!

  48. Steph Levine says: November 14, 2017 at 10:05 pm

    Yesssss

  49. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:05 pm

    Yeah!!!

  50. Leslie Typrin says: November 14, 2017 at 10:05 pm

    Fun

  51. Steph Levine says: November 14, 2017 at 10:05 pm

    Grabbing a beer – I️ have a coaching call first

  52. Mike Muddy Schlegel says: November 14, 2017 at 10:05 pm

    http://soulfullsuccess.info

  53. Lana King Howell says: November 14, 2017 at 10:05 pm

    oh man I had to get off just when you started the 8 things… are you posting it?

  54. Helen May says: November 14, 2017 at 10:06 pm

    camomile tea

  55. Allison Crow says: November 14, 2017 at 10:09 pm

    Happy Hour Link https://zoom.us/j/910681220

  56. Cydney Peterson says: November 14, 2017 at 11:02 pm

    The isolation aspect is hard!!

    • Allison Crow says: November 14, 2017 at 11:41 pm

      It is!

    • Allison Crow says: November 15, 2017 at 5:52 pm

      I’d love to invite you to become a part of our community! Its so nice to not go at this alone Cydney Peterson

    • Cydney Peterson says: November 15, 2017 at 6:25 pm

      Allison Crow Sent you a message.

  57. Anita Barfoot Berg says: November 15, 2017 at 4:35 am

    Replay ?

  58. Cara Wykowski says: November 15, 2017 at 4:52 am

    I buy to feel good, to experience the power of choice, to enjoy ….. I also need to reign myself in!

  59. Cara Wykowski says: November 15, 2017 at 4:55 am

    Is this your list of 8?

  60. Cara Wykowski says: November 15, 2017 at 5:00 am

    You ARE a master!!

  61. Cara Wykowski says: November 15, 2017 at 5:03 am

    This past year I’ve embraced selling from my feminine side and less from my pushy masculine side. Far more effective and enjoyable!

    • Allison Crow says: November 15, 2017 at 5:51 pm

      Yes! We thrive when we work that way! Cara Wykowski you are divine magician of life and work.

  62. Ana Caragea says: November 15, 2017 at 7:29 am

    Hi replay viewer

  63. Tracy Weiss says: November 15, 2017 at 1:27 pm

    Always love your content Allison! <3 Thanks so much!!

  64. Deborah Young says: November 16, 2017 at 2:27 am

    Thanks so much for sharing these eight things… I’m selling feel good, enjoyment of life, food, drink and freedom from pain!

  65. Deborah Young says: November 16, 2017 at 2:28 am

    And… social connection with like minded people in creative circles!

  66. Deborah Young says: November 16, 2017 at 2:29 am

    So helpful. .. thanks again! !

  67. JC Williams says: November 16, 2017 at 9:57 am

    Hi on replay x

  68. Diane Reiner says: November 16, 2017 at 4:23 pm

    Hello pen and paper ready

  69. Diane Reiner says: November 16, 2017 at 4:32 pm

    Connection of acceptance and achievement to the best

  70. Diane Reiner says: November 16, 2017 at 4:54 pm

    Great community of support and exploring ideas!!

  71. Diane Reiner says: November 16, 2017 at 4:57 pm

    I have a business partner that has checkout of our business. So I have an awesome co working space. 4 of us have moved our desks together for a business development hub.

  72. Diane Reiner says: November 16, 2017 at 5:05 pm

    Great info ty

  73. Charan Surdhar says: November 16, 2017 at 10:22 pm

    Violetta Brandys

  74. Vianca Salanga says: January 5, 2018 at 1:54 am

    Hello Allison Crow, I was referred to this video by Christina Berkley. This is wonderful. I tried to sign up on that website you mentioned here, but when I clicked submit it wouldn’t work and just freeze up. Are you still offering this class?

    • Allison Crow says: January 5, 2018 at 2:22 am

      Which website did you go to?

    • Allison Crow says: January 5, 2018 at 2:22 am

      This one: https://soulfullsuccess.live/purchase-life/

    • Allison Crow says: January 5, 2018 at 2:23 am

      Or the share your Heart Show your work class (that is not live right now)

    • Allison Crow says: January 5, 2018 at 2:24 am

      Christina Berkley thank you for the referral. ???

    • Allison Crow says: January 5, 2018 at 2:24 am

      Christina Berkley thank you for the referral.

  75. Lisa-Jane Myers says: January 5, 2018 at 10:24 pm

    Wow thank you Alison this is amazing !!
    ??????

  76. Lisa-Jane Myers says: January 5, 2018 at 10:24 pm

    Wow thank you Alison this is amazing !!

  77. Kathryn Stanley-Hart says: January 7, 2018 at 2:13 am

    This is really good.

  78. Lacou Lee Flipse says: April 22, 2018 at 6:34 pm

    Carolyn Smyth Carlyn Bialosky Dumebi Ada Teaira Ridgeway Which basic needs are you all hitting (:

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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