There are a few players in your mind. Let’s call one the Wizard- the bad ass, the possibilitarian, the dreamer, the divine voice of truth, the believer – the true YOU.
And the other is a Muggle. A rather critical and shaming sob- a fuckwad really, who tries to make you believe that his voice is true – he’s just trying to keep you safe and protected and yada, yada, yada…. well, because he is not aware of your wizardly magic abilities.
You see, the wizard can absorb any loss, and bounce back from any failure knowing it was a magical lesson. The wizard uses her mind to envision herself as already BEing the she of her dreams. And she moves about her life and work and relationships AS-IF (vs the muggle who moves about in drama, fear and dread).
Remember your Wizardry, my love. And remember that whatever you choose- BOTH are extremely powerful creators. Yes, even the Muggle creates her world…. but usually ends up creating ?.
Be the wizard you are ?