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10 Things I Learned About Starting a Coaching Membership Community Before I Was Ready..now that I’m 18 Months in

January 15, 2019

10 Things I Learned About Starting a Coaching Membership Community Before I Was Ready..now that I’m 18 Months in

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Advanced Personal Development Life Coach for Experienced Business Owners & ExecsπŸ’›Author, Art, & Dogs

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  1. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:10 pm

    yay a list!

  2. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:12 pm

    Hi babe!!!

  3. Christy Chick Nash says: January 15, 2019 at 6:14 pm

    Hello Allison ❀️??❀️

  4. Camille Tyler says: January 15, 2019 at 6:15 pm

    Hello my friend

  5. Deidra Towns says: January 15, 2019 at 6:16 pm

    Me tooooooo!!!!

  6. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:18 pm

    OMG I would feel awful if I knew I was hurting your feelings by not showing up live!

  7. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:20 pm

    Big. Ass. Lurker. ?

  8. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:20 pm

    Big. Ass. Lurker.

  9. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:20 pm

    You have created an amazing environment for us to get into however works for us ?

  10. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:20 pm

    You have created an amazing environment for us to get into however works for us

  11. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:20 pm

    i call myself the stalker!

  12. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:21 pm

    Mary, I’m with ya!

  13. Debbie Hearn Shannon says: January 15, 2019 at 6:23 pm

    Bring on the masculine ??

  14. Debbie Shannon says: January 15, 2019 at 6:23 pm

    Bring on the masculine

  15. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:23 pm

    I just got mine! I loooooove it! ???

  16. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:23 pm

    I just got mine! I loooooove it!

  17. Mark J. Silverman says: January 15, 2019 at 6:24 pm

    I gotta go back to the beginning on this one. good stuff and I totally need your wisdom on this.

  18. Jennifer Goorchenko says: January 15, 2019 at 6:26 pm

    Gotta jet- I’ll come back to this. Love y’all!

  19. Mark J. Silverman says: January 15, 2019 at 6:27 pm

    such a good insight!!!! teach them how to benefit from membership!

  20. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:30 pm

    Ohhh yesss yes yes. Hi ?? I’ve been looking forward to this!

  21. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:30 pm

    Ohhh yesss yes yes. Hi I’ve been looking forward to this!

  22. Mark J. Silverman says: January 15, 2019 at 6:34 pm

    Gotta go love, going to come back and learn some things <3

  23. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:36 pm

    what’s the general rule – it takes an average of 7 touches before a person buys in…

  24. Deidra Towns says: January 15, 2019 at 6:37 pm

    Alignment is key

  25. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:38 pm

    Facebook adds work! It’s worth the money!

  26. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:41 pm

    Ug. Yes! I am stuck in that cycle!!

  27. Monica Weakley says: January 15, 2019 at 6:41 pm

    Love that! Run faster than your doubt!

  28. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    Sonoma

  29. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    Time hop doubt ?❀?

  30. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    Time hop doubt

  31. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:45 pm

    Membership model is my secret to success ??

  32. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:45 pm

    Membership model is my secret to success

  33. Deidra Towns says: January 15, 2019 at 6:47 pm

    S much for you to be proud of

  34. Christy Chick Nash says: January 15, 2019 at 6:48 pm

    Woohoo ?

  35. Monica Weakley says: January 15, 2019 at 6:48 pm

    Congrats! TODAY is deserved for you! xo

  36. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:49 pm

    You are one of the most talented coaches! I talk to so many advisors and your words always click and keep me going. Thank you !

  37. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:49 pm

    my block is accepting that i am a business and am creating myself as a business person.

  38. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:49 pm

    business owner.

  39. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    That’s my Achilles ?

  40. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    That’s my Achilles

  41. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    Sales ^

  42. Deidra Towns says: January 15, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    Yeeesssssss!!!!!!

  43. Ashtyn Tulip Campbell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:50 pm

    Yeppp. My stomach drops with the sales piece…

  44. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:51 pm

    ???????

  45. Freddie Kemp says: January 15, 2019 at 6:51 pm

    And guys!

  46. Deidra Towns says: January 15, 2019 at 6:51 pm

    Sign me up for that!

  47. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:52 pm

    Hallelujah ❀

  48. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:52 pm

    Hallelujah

  49. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:52 pm

    Geez these are good! This is perfect ???

  50. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:52 pm

    Geez these are good! This is perfect

  51. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:55 pm

    pod is a cool idea.

  52. Ashtyn Tulip Campbell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:56 pm

    Stacy ❀️

  53. Tula Campbell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:56 pm

    Stacy

  54. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:56 pm

    Definitely implementing this pod concept ASAP. Brilliant

  55. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:57 pm

    i’ll lead one!

  56. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:57 pm

    With pods!

  57. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 6:57 pm

    LOL!!! awesome!

  58. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:57 pm

    Ashtyn ?

  59. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:57 pm

    Ashtyn

  60. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:57 pm

    My question about membership

  61. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    Conor Pickett Didem Mert Todd Pletcher watch this!

  62. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    Shit how do I tag people to share this

  63. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    In your opinion is a website necessary to process reoccurring monthly membership fees? What are the options?

  64. Monica Weakley says: January 15, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    Beside common language – what are some other ways to build community?

  65. Christy Chick Nash says: January 15, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    I love the pod idea ?

  66. Christy Chick Nash says: January 15, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    I love the pod idea

  67. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    Barlow clay

  68. Monica Weakley says: January 15, 2019 at 6:59 pm

    kajabi interfaces with different processors

  69. Monica Weakley says: January 15, 2019 at 6:59 pm

    I use stripe

  70. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 7:01 pm

    Hey Didem! Watch this whole video!

  71. Rebecca Anne says: January 15, 2019 at 7:01 pm

    Specifically the last 20 minutes

  72. Christy Chick Nash says: January 15, 2019 at 7:04 pm

    ???

  73. Mary Tirrell says: January 15, 2019 at 7:05 pm

    Amy Kypersm- this might be fun to watch for you

  74. Stacy Louise Christopher says: January 15, 2019 at 7:05 pm

    Thank you ????

  75. Dee Ann Higgins says: January 15, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    Oops- guess I’ll catch the replay…?

  76. Dee Ann Higgins says: January 15, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    Oops- guess I’ll catch the replay…

  77. Ashtyn Tulip Campbell says: January 15, 2019 at 7:08 pm

    This was almost exactly timed with my lunch break. Literally ended as I walked through the office door. : )

  78. Tressa Brandenburg Ellis says: January 16, 2019 at 12:02 am

    ? Amazing Stuff!!!!

  79. Tressa Ellis says: January 16, 2019 at 12:02 am

    Amazing Stuff!!!!

  80. Sophie Lhoste Healer says: January 16, 2019 at 1:27 am

    I love Paypal as well for all the reasons you said. Been using it since 2009 and they always have my back. Their fees is just a business cost.

  81. Judie Schwerdtfeger says: January 17, 2019 at 7:11 am

    Alive/well and yep I listen a lot at night!! Thanks Allison for all you do.

    • Allison Crow says: January 17, 2019 at 12:51 pm

      Judie Schwerdtfeger love you.

    • Allison Crow says: January 17, 2019 at 12:52 pm

      Judie Schwerdtfeger SuperSoulie t-shirt is on the way.

  82. Shanti Zimmermann says: January 18, 2019 at 4:17 pm

    This is all GOLD! I love you.

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2019 at 12:41 am

      Shanti Zimmermann I love you. Thank you.

  83. Shanti Zimmermann says: January 18, 2019 at 4:50 pm

    RUN through the doubt!!! Weeeeeeee!!

  84. Teresa Pimenta says: January 23, 2019 at 10:33 pm

    That overdelivering thing hits home here

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2019 at 12:41 am

      Teresa Pimenta seriously!

  85. Teresa Pimenta says: January 23, 2019 at 10:39 pm

    In my group we have our own song ???

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2019 at 12:41 am

      Teresa Pimenta fun.

  86. Teresa Pimenta says: January 23, 2019 at 10:39 pm

    In my group we have our own song

  87. Teresa Pimenta says: January 23, 2019 at 10:39 pm

    Like an anthem ?

  88. Teresa Pimenta says: January 23, 2019 at 10:39 pm

    Like an anthem

  89. Teresa Pimenta says: January 23, 2019 at 11:12 pm

    Go faster than your doubt ???❀❀❀❀

  90. Teresa Pimenta says: January 23, 2019 at 11:12 pm

    Go faster than your doubt

  91. Teresa Pimenta says: January 24, 2019 at 12:30 am

    OMFG listening to you I realize I am doing a whole bunch of awesome stuff already inside my tribe and that is a free group.. OMG…

    I have been rocking it my gosh… thank you Allison Crow for creating this space cause right now I am feeling so much more confident…

    Right now I feel very proud of myself… Time to monetize my work…

    I love sitting with you ❀

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2019 at 12:41 am

      Teresa Pimenta yes. Monetize it baby.

  92. Teresa Pimenta says: January 24, 2019 at 12:30 am

    OMFG listening to you I realize I am doing a whole bunch of awesome stuff already inside my tribe and that is a free group.. OMG…

    I have been rocking it my gosh… thank you Allison Crow for creating this space cause right now I am feeling so much more confident…

    Right now I feel very proud of myself… Time to monetize my work…

    I love sitting with you

  93. Teresa Pimenta says: January 24, 2019 at 12:37 am

    Great idea with the weekends away. Love it. ❀

  94. Teresa Pimenta says: January 24, 2019 at 12:37 am

    Great idea with the weekends away. Love it.

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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