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Divine Fem, Pineapples, Paint and Wine…..

November 26, 2017

Divine Fem, Pineapples, Paint and Wine…..

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  1. Malinda Baum says: November 26, 2017 at 10:33 pm

    Hi Allison =)

  2. Eric Luczak says: November 26, 2017 at 10:33 pm

    Happy Sunday

  3. Bill Flanigin says: November 26, 2017 at 10:33 pm

    Leroy is barking at you

  4. Mark J. Silverman says: November 26, 2017 at 10:33 pm

    That is the hottest pineapple

  5. Jenni Colligan Peters says: November 26, 2017 at 10:33 pm

    I love the pineapple!

  6. Theresa Marie Falvey says: November 26, 2017 at 10:33 pm

    Just got done listening to your last podcast! Fabulous!

  7. Mark J. Silverman says: November 26, 2017 at 10:34 pm

    The one with Giovanna?

  8. Mark J. Silverman says: November 26, 2017 at 10:35 pm

    Love you. Gotta go pick up kid.

  9. Eric Luczak says: November 26, 2017 at 10:36 pm

    Great question

  10. Eric Luczak says: November 26, 2017 at 10:38 pm

    Divine sweetness

  11. Theresa Marie Falvey says: November 26, 2017 at 10:38 pm

    Fresh & fruity! Ha!

  12. Laura Adkerson Larcom says: November 26, 2017 at 10:38 pm

    Love and nurturing.

  13. Yaquese Welcher says: November 26, 2017 at 10:38 pm

    Hi Allyson!

  14. Gisele Cabral says: November 26, 2017 at 10:39 pm

    pineapple to me means, vocations and fresh air!

  15. Yaquese Welcher says: November 26, 2017 at 10:41 pm

    Abundance from the inside out. I forget too.

  16. Maree-Daryl Haggerty says: November 26, 2017 at 10:41 pm

    Hi Allison from Invercargill New Zealand. ๐Ÿ™‚

  17. Maree-Daryl Haggerty says: November 26, 2017 at 10:41 pm

    It is 11.45am ๐Ÿ™‚

  18. Malinda Baum says: November 26, 2017 at 10:45 pm

    ??

  19. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:45 pm

    Well hello Girlfriend!

  20. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:46 pm

    Me too! With a glass of wine!

  21. Kerry Kennedy says: November 26, 2017 at 10:46 pm

    Hey lovely

  22. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:46 pm

    I better pour one!

  23. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:47 pm

    Pineapple club!

  24. Cristina Palma says: November 26, 2017 at 10:47 pm

    chin chin?

  25. Cristina Palma says: November 26, 2017 at 10:47 pm

    chin chin

  26. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:48 pm

    Masculine energy is sometimes needed to get you to the table. Fem energy is the magic at the table!

    • Allison Crow says: November 26, 2017 at 11:14 pm

      Yes. We need it.

  27. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:50 pm

    Agreed – pause. Listen in. Then i find flow.

  28. Cristina Palma says: November 26, 2017 at 10:50 pm

    “getting back on the flow state” love it

  29. Joelle Collins Bohart says: November 26, 2017 at 10:52 pm

    I donโ€™t know what happened I use to not give a shit what other people think. Then I cared a lot. Iโ€™m at the point now where I can remember flow and want to find it again!

  30. Joelle Collins Bohart says: November 26, 2017 at 10:52 pm

    I hate shoulding all over myself

  31. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:55 pm

    Grace for where you are.

  32. Cara Wykowski says: November 26, 2017 at 10:55 pm

    I’ll be at Camp Star Heart!

  33. Tammy Judd Jenny says: November 26, 2017 at 11:12 pm

    Watching on the replay. The word juicy-ness is what came into my head with pineapple.

  34. Helen May says: November 26, 2017 at 11:20 pm

    Sweet juicy but prickly!!

  35. Helen May says: November 26, 2017 at 11:21 pm

    Tropical

  36. Helen May says: November 26, 2017 at 11:21 pm

    bountiful

  37. Helen May says: November 26, 2017 at 11:25 pm

    Does not sound crazy!!

  38. Helen May says: November 26, 2017 at 11:26 pm

    Love what you’re saying about the thinker and the noticer

    • Allison Crow says: November 26, 2017 at 11:27 pm

      My thinker is a punk. My noticed is cool.

  39. Helen May says: November 26, 2017 at 11:27 pm

    Absolutely! Observe the thinker, the over-thinker etc

  40. Helen May says: November 26, 2017 at 11:37 pm

    Yes. Be the noticer!!โ™กโ™กโ™กโ™ก

  41. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:38 pm

    Your art is awesome!

  42. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:40 pm

    I need to listen

  43. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:41 pm

    Interesting connection

  44. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:44 pm

    A pineapple means home and community and joy. And yes! I love pineapples

  45. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:45 pm

    I know I need to go paint after all this cleaning out. Feeling anxious so I know itโ€™s stirring. Painting brings forth so much insight ?

  46. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:45 pm

    I know I need to go paint after all this cleaning out. Feeling anxious so I know itโ€™s stirring. Painting brings forth so much insight

  47. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:46 pm

    Womenโ€™s group โœจ?

  48. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:46 pm

    Womenโ€™s group

  49. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:53 pm

    Yes sometimes an open heart is overwhelming

  50. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:54 pm

    I think the pineapple club brings visions of some crazy fun women sitting outside under the moon having a cocktail by the fire. ?

    • Allison Crow says: November 26, 2017 at 11:56 pm

      Thank works.

  51. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:54 pm

    I think the pineapple club brings visions of some crazy fun women sitting outside under the moon having a cocktail by the fire.

  52. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:59 pm

    Looking forward to connecting with everyone this week too ???

    • Michelle Jeanette says: November 27, 2017 at 1:02 am

      Yes! Me too ???

  53. Leslie Typrin says: November 26, 2017 at 11:59 pm

    Looking forward to connecting with everyone this week too

  54. Michelle Jeanette says: November 27, 2017 at 12:49 am

    Love Pineapple Club ?

  55. Christine Summers says: November 27, 2017 at 2:06 pm

    I love pineapples ?

  56. Christine Summers says: November 27, 2017 at 2:06 pm

    I love pineapples

  57. Christine Summers says: November 27, 2017 at 2:10 pm

    Hospitality, friendship

  58. Ana Caragea says: November 29, 2017 at 3:46 am

    Royalty and magic ???

  59. Ana Caragea says: November 29, 2017 at 3:46 am

    Royalty and magic

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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