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How to Feel Your Feelings – Emotional Processing. Live Recording Of The Better Life Better Work Show: Episode 66 with Super Soulie Kristen Kosinski!

October 3, 2019

How to Feel Your Feelings – Emotional Processing. Live Recording Of The Better Life Better Work Show: Episode 66 with Super Soulie Kristen Kosinski!

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  1. Gayle Zientek says: October 3, 2019 at 6:07 pm

    Hello beautiful Allison and Kristen

    • Allison Crow says: October 4, 2019 at 12:05 am

      Gayle Zientek hello!

  2. Nemo Ashong says: October 3, 2019 at 11:16 pm

    I’m still benefiting from the Powerful work we did together Kristen Kosinski.

    I hadn’t realized how closed I was emotionally until I experienced the openness afterwards.

    Thanks for sharing your gifts Kristen and Allison!

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 1:32 am

      Nemo Ashong Love to hear this! Have you gone in for round 2??????

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 1:32 am

      Nemo Ashong Love to hear this! Have you gone in for round 2???

  3. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 3:25 pm

    Oh awesome!!! Emotional poop ?

    • Allison Crow says: October 4, 2019 at 4:33 pm

      so healthy right!

    • Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 5:58 pm

      Allison Crow I have buckets of it ?

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 6:23 pm

      Leslie Typrin you are not alone ?

    • Allison Crow says: October 4, 2019 at 6:26 pm

      Leslie Typrin Kristen Kosinski ???

  4. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 3:25 pm

    Oh awesome!!! Emotional poop

    • Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 5:58 pm

      Allison Crow I have buckets of it

      • Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 6:23 pm

        Leslie Typrin you are not alone

        • Allison Crow says: October 4, 2019 at 6:26 pm

          Leslie Typrin Kristen Kosinski

  5. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 3:25 pm

    Had no idea I was alreAdy participating in angry October!!

  6. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 3:27 pm

    Totally learning to love the power in my anger. I used to be terrified of the enormity of it.

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 6:25 pm

      Leslie Typrin Yes!!! The more aligned we become and use it to propel us, the more extraordinary our lives become. โค๏ธ

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 4, 2019 at 6:25 pm

      Leslie Typrin Yes!!! The more aligned we become and use it to propel us, the more extraordinary our lives become.

  7. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 3:28 pm

    You are speaking directly to my soul right now ??โค๏ธ

  8. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 3:28 pm

    You are speaking directly to my soul right now

  9. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 3:31 pm

    This reminds me of …. this reminds me of a time when …

  10. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 7:16 pm

    I call my shadow work my โ€œdeep playโ€

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 5, 2019 at 4:05 am

      Leslie Typrin Thatโ€™s good!

  11. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 7:18 pm

    This is such an important empowerment tool – honoring all parts of ourselves and self expression

  12. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 7:18 pm

    Best training ever!!!!!

  13. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 7:22 pm

    The words are the key piece. Thank you for sharing your process.

  14. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 7:22 pm

    I totally tried this morning and wow!!!! What a rush of energy came through. Then exhaustion

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 5, 2019 at 4:07 am

      Leslie Typrin Sometimes it can be exhausting as itโ€™s a lot of work spiritually mentally emotionally physically. That said, in the long run itโ€™ll give you more energy because you wonโ€™t be spending energy suppressing your emotions.

    • Leslie Typrin says: October 5, 2019 at 1:11 pm

      Kristen Kosinski ??โœจ

    • Leslie Typrin says: October 5, 2019 at 1:11 pm

      Kristen Kosinski

  15. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 7:25 pm

    I think there is a mass purging going. And bringing a safe space to hold the anger and rage and all shadow emotions is huge!!!!

    • Kristen Kosinski says: October 5, 2019 at 4:08 am

      Leslie Typrin Imagine how our world would be if everyone did this!

  16. Leslie Typrin says: October 4, 2019 at 7:26 pm

    Such a fabulous conversation

  17. Jody Caunter Garcia says: October 6, 2019 at 1:50 pm

    Wow! This is awesome ladies!

  18. Jody Caunter Garcia says: October 6, 2019 at 1:52 pm

    There was a time during my divorce that the ex wanted to talk to apologize. I wasnโ€™t ready. One of my friends asked me why. And I told her it was because I didnโ€™t want to lose my anger. It was my fuel!

  19. Jody Caunter Garcia says: October 6, 2019 at 2:23 pm

    Wow. The words are the breadcrumbs to figure out how youโ€™re feeling.

    • Jody Caunter Garcia says: October 6, 2019 at 5:10 pm

      Actually, you said ‘clarity’ to how you are feeling.

  20. Jody Caunter Garcia says: October 6, 2019 at 2:32 pm

    Maybe have a part 2. This was a fantastic topic.

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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