I may not have been bored… but There are recurring times where I’ve been hella lonely despite good digital social life… hence me hopping on fb post midnight for a little connection … it’s ok to be lonely (that’s my discomfort) #thistooshallpass
I had my time with boredom, isolation, and uncertainty back in 2006-2014. It led to a deeper understanding of self, a deeper appreciation for “normal” and brain health and good energy, a much deeper relationship with Source, and a shift toward living much more consistently from love than I did before that challenging time.
When you are alone with deep uncertainty and you want to live, you go deep within and when you go deep enough, there’s Source, the still quiet voice within, waiting for you to listen more deeply and sincerely than you ever did before. We’re all the same – divine spiritual beings having a physical experience. To become effective and deliberate creators aligned with the highest good of all involved, we must connect deeply within us to the part of us that is from Source.
That’s my opinion and experience with it. I realize that may be too religious or spiritual for some and not all will resonate with it. That’s ok. My share is for those who do resonate. Here, boredom is the door. Knock and go in. Seek and you will find the Divine within.
The Divine is subtle and easily missed when busy or agitated, especially to those untrained or unpracticed with connecting and relating. It takes the quiet boredom to slow down enough to listen and discern.
Allison, loved your reference to living from discernment. Indeed! This IS the key! Every behavior or belief has its day as righteous and correct. It also has its day as evil or wrong.
Discernment is living with wisdom, with the ability to see when up is up and when it is down because all of it is relative to context. The only absolutes are things will change, it’s all made up from Source, and we are co-creators with Source if we listen deeply and choose and commit to being a conscious divine partner with the intelligent, creative energy that is in all.
Because of my experience, I believe the pandemic and this time in general is a phase of deep asking by Source. “Do you want to love here? To live here is to love here. Are you ready to love more? To love where and when you didn’t before?” Some consciously or unconsciously say “yes” and live on to learn and grow towards being a fuller and brighter expression of deep and authentic love. Others decide they would rather check out of physical experience and move on to learning, loving, and serving from the nonphysical. It may or may not be a conscious choice but it’s definitely a choice made by the Higher Self.
Indeed, this is a time of deep spiritual growth. Details of it unfold differently for each person but unfold it does like a flower unfolding from a seed.
Love the hair!!!
Hey x
I’d be all over that
I love a shimmer
Me too.
Cheers mofo
Right!!!
I’m sending you a huge hug x
Gut instinct re what you said…. I’m not so sure it’s discomfort… I think it’s more a need for certainty/control.
I meant gut reaction to what you said and yes… it’s how we’re wired. Human psychology
I don’t have time for boredom. Also, my home life isn’t that different
We aren’t “go out and do shit” people most of the time
I love boredom ideas thrive there
Ha! We dpn
We don’t have neighborhood pools up here
Its too cold
Oh,, gosh. I’m so sorry for your friend
Chop wood carry water
Hey woman
Trying so hard to be bored
Yes! I tell the kids to let themselves be bored
I’ve not been bored at all really
I have the luxury, just goes against my nature
How are they feeling? Your sister and fam?
Yes! Like busy is better
When boredom sets in, I move to appreciation. Feels better
It’s ok to be bored
We feel such an urge to fill every space in our lives
I had a 40th covid birthday and I’m going to have a 20th covid wedding anniversary
Not enough people are willing to be bored
No, it’s MY 20th annivesary
It’s totally going to be boring. LOL
I may not have been bored… but There are recurring times where I’ve been hella lonely despite good digital social life… hence me hopping on fb post midnight for a little connection … it’s ok to be lonely (that’s my discomfort) #thistooshallpass
Vicky Hemming I hear you
Hello fear. What do you want me to know ?
No words
I love liz Gilbert’s letter to fear
Vicky Hemming I haven’t read or heard that.
This is a lovely video with her narrative. I believe that it originally comes from big magic
https://vimeo.com/169750602
Vicky Hemming great video yep… That letter to fear is on the book BIG MAGIC
For you
Love and grace to you and you all. Thank you
Love you too x
Love the hair and the sparkle!
Chop Wood, Carry Water! Amen!
Love You Lady!
I had my time with boredom, isolation, and uncertainty back in 2006-2014. It led to a deeper understanding of self, a deeper appreciation for “normal” and brain health and good energy, a much deeper relationship with Source, and a shift toward living much more consistently from love than I did before that challenging time.
When you are alone with deep uncertainty and you want to live, you go deep within and when you go deep enough, there’s Source, the still quiet voice within, waiting for you to listen more deeply and sincerely than you ever did before. We’re all the same – divine spiritual beings having a physical experience. To become effective and deliberate creators aligned with the highest good of all involved, we must connect deeply within us to the part of us that is from Source.
That’s my opinion and experience with it. I realize that may be too religious or spiritual for some and not all will resonate with it. That’s ok. My share is for those who do resonate. Here, boredom is the door. Knock and go in. Seek and you will find the Divine within.
The Divine is subtle and easily missed when busy or agitated, especially to those untrained or unpracticed with connecting and relating. It takes the quiet boredom to slow down enough to listen and discern.
Allison, loved your reference to living from discernment. Indeed! This IS the key! Every behavior or belief has its day as righteous and correct. It also has its day as evil or wrong.
Discernment is living with wisdom, with the ability to see when up is up and when it is down because all of it is relative to context. The only absolutes are things will change, it’s all made up from Source, and we are co-creators with Source if we listen deeply and choose and commit to being a conscious divine partner with the intelligent, creative energy that is in all.
Because of my experience, I believe the pandemic and this time in general is a phase of deep asking by Source. “Do you want to love here? To live here is to love here. Are you ready to love more? To love where and when you didn’t before?” Some consciously or unconsciously say “yes” and live on to learn and grow towards being a fuller and brighter expression of deep and authentic love. Others decide they would rather check out of physical experience and move on to learning, loving, and serving from the nonphysical. It may or may not be a conscious choice but it’s definitely a choice made by the Higher Self.
Indeed, this is a time of deep spiritual growth. Details of it unfold differently for each person but unfold it does like a flower unfolding from a seed.
Your nails look great!
Thank you. Regular polish. Regular nails. I was looking in to the whole Gel nails thing and hell no that looked toooo complicated.
Interesting …I might agree.
I am so bored on the weekends especially.
Defensive reactions seem like habitual patters, cultural even.
106 here…drains me.
The loneliness
Gosh