Rejection, Risks, Rants…. and it really does all come to clarity towards the end.
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Humaning
Humaning
It’s SOoOo fucking hard. Isn’t a continual MIND FUCK?
“Brutiful”
Is a concept from Glennon Doyle Melton
“you cannot have the beautiful parts of life if you do not also accept the brutal parts…”
from her book “Love Warrior”
Cristina Palma yes. I am reading it too.
My heart is with you. Aaaa God it is so relieving to see the hard side of sharing your heart and showing your work…. Of embodying your mission. I don’t enjoy seeing you sad,but you created something beautiful and inspiring out of it. I cried with you. I was connected to my own pain of growth. You shine your Light Angel even when you think you are not. I am happy you shared this… Big hug! And congratulations!
I have so much love and support in my heart for you. You are loved. Just look, we are all having a coach crush on you. You are the freshest coach I now. Everything you do is unique to me and has such a vibe around it. And this video? Sounds like a fucking manifesto for me.
Wow. What a feel good to my heart- the freshest coach I know. Did you know that I just started a new biz journal and the key energy is FRESH. ?
Wow. What a feel good to my heart- the freshest coach I know. Did you know that I just started a new biz journal and the key energy is FRESH.
And fresh includes growth, new, and nourished.
Woohoo! Would love to hear more about that
Thank you for a beautiful example of vulnerability.
I’m hearing that you want to move away from a transactional model, you want something more fully human.
That feels nice.
this is a conversation that interest me. What does that look like. Who are the leaders in this.
Allison, it’s something that became clear to me recently, that patriarchy and capitalism wants to reduce our interactions to transactions. And the part of us that can feel the bs in that, the part that resists the sheep training that is everywhere- is asking for a more true expression of being human. The both and that you describe is what most of us are aching to be.
I think it looks like a lot of what you are doing. I see people modelling it, if not expressly describing the move as one from ‘transactions’ to ‘human’ My friend Julie M Daley is one, Kathy Brown is another Kelly Diels, Paula Smoot Sistare… I may think of others later… It’s a headache day today.
When you switch from transactional to relational, you actually get to help/impact more people. That is why we build a team, to have greater impact. You’re so doing it.
I’m actually speaking to more than just marketing, I’m not able to articulate it, because this damn brain injury is messing with how my thoughts form…
But the powers that be want to reduce us to processes, transactions and simplified binary concepts (because us believing that we can/should be that way keeps us in control and a source of power to be extracted, and shame keeps us in line). Aware people are fighting for a new model, but there is so much programming (the beep in the doctors office) we end up fighting ourselves and the culture. This was the process I think I witnessed in this live stream.
You aren’t alone. You may be one of the most open about it, but you aren’t alone
thank you. I’m sorry your head is still hurting honey <3
The transactional nature of the world out there…
Aprile… Ha ha!!
It is hard and you are fucking beautiful!
I love seeing the raw side of you…not weak. I feel it too. It fucking hurts sometimes. Sending you a virtual hug and love and loving your courage to be so raw. Not sure I could…I always share after, not during. Its stronger to be raw. How could anyone think you’re weak?!
Why does there always have to be an offer? Be you!
I think I was meaning— there has to be a point. And there doesn’t. ?
I think I was meaning— there has to be a point. And there doesn’t.
YAY and Yes!
thank you <3
Is nt it the story around asking for help that hurts
We want more because it is in our nature. Life is akways seeking for MORE.
I love you I see you
To be loved and rejected at the same time
You are perfect and you are not alone
Certainly nothing wrong with asking for something. If it is a, no, well, we gave it a go! As a leader we put it out there and only if necessary we clean up our poop.
Xoxo
Replay hello
No not ready
Meant ..no not easy
I feel you
Human!
I don’t want to be life that either
You are doing a different way. That’s why we listen
You would be board
Yin and yang… The two parts of the whole
You have given me permission to be me and to be imperfectly perfect…. to say my message and speak it as important… I have learned so much about how to be me wholeheartedly…. By seeing you be you. You have given me strength. Now I realize I could have told you sooner… Sone how I thought you knew. Thanks for asking for what you need. Love you
Watching the reply today
Your
Your sharing helps us all. We wouldn’t be here if we didn’t want to see the truth.
so beautiful Allison, I love you in all you are sharing, so much!!
Listening to you, I am reminded to spend time really feeling and acknowledging what is going on in me- I’ve been skimming over it because there seems so much to do to get through life and to get somewhere more ‘easy’ or sustainable <3
You are only sharing what we all struggle with and it HELPS me as well. I respect and appreciate your honesty. I am right there with ou. xoxoxo Glad I was able to watch replay. We all need help as we are one.
We all need to feel significant and to progeress.
You are voicing exactly what’s in my head. You are so not alone and I always liked you, but I gotta tell you…I just fell head over heals.
Really? I have thought a thousand times about deleting this-
Yes, totally, jump-up-and-down really. And I think that’s a common reaction when we speak about what’s happening – we are the voice for others because it’s definitely in the space, and it’s terrifying, but I think it’s true leadership to voice it and then bravely stand by it, hangover n’ all!
Oooooooohhhh mmmmmyyyyyy goddess I love you. I believe in the different way.
I have that nose too!!!!
Hello 🙂
Yes!!! Thankyou so much for being you ❤️❤️??
Yes!!! Thankyou so much for being you
Richard Wilkins got emotional this week too on fb live. Keep the video up and fuck the script in your head he says.
I just love you ?
I just love you
Hello replay
Weak doesn’t share the truth!! I love that you are real with me, us.
Morning replay!
Yes yes yes… The struggle
I appreciate your vulnerability, please keep it glowing, it teaches us. It is very difficult when someone shits on our doorstep. Knowing that loving ourselfs and others will help in knowing that someone’s words or actions are none of our business, it’s their shit!
It’s not fucking easy
I love you and your authenticity ❤️❤️
I love you and your authenticity
I am right here
So fucking right here xo
❤️❤️??❤️
You are beautiful
Thank you for showing me that sharing this is ok. This side of my life. The vulnerabilities.
And no to being an asshole
Huge rejection
You are a vulnerable powerhouse
Yes. Acknowledging all parts. Beautuful
I think about doing life easy too
I resonate so much with all of this. Soooo much
It’s heartbreaking thinking about the robots and drones and how I lived for so long
Amen. No one is wrong.
You teach me to express myself and not hold it inside. Thank you ❤️
You teach me to express myself and not hold it inside. Thank you
Love youuuuu
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Be real. Be us
Beauty. So beautiful. Thank you
Impact: permission to feel. Permission to share all parts of me openly in all parts of my life. I don’t ask for help easily. I suck at it and do life alone. It’s lonely. I don’t want to and am afraid to trust and ask for what I want and need.
thank you Dawn Armstrong <3
Hello
Thank you!!!!!!
Lol the ass holes but you see how hard they have worked
That’s why they became assholes
You are not alone!!!!!
Forreal
Im feeling you i love it thanks again.
Its a cold worlf
Yep. The year is ending and the universe lets us know thats its time for a change
A community a support system and positive innovative energy is what we need
Righy
Point of views
Acknowledgments
Right
Hi friend. Watching the replay!
its a doosie!
It was beautifully vulnerable and real and it’s why I love you so much! I too am challenged with needing help and trying to decide who, what, where and when!!! You’re definitely not alone. You’re also not alone in that we all face rejection and it hurts when it’s someone we care about. You make it okay for all of us to be human and be having a human experience. Loving you!!! ❤️?❤️?
It was beautifully vulnerable and real and it’s why I love you so much! I too am challenged with needing help and trying to decide who, what, where and when!!! You’re definitely not alone. You’re also not alone in that we all face rejection and it hurts when it’s someone we care about. You make it okay for all of us to be human and be having a human experience. Loving you!!!
Love you dearly and deeply! ❤️❤️❤️
Love you dearly and deeply!
I want to connect with people, but I am terrified that I’m going to drain them because of being needy or that I need to be helpful in someway. I am reaching out to people and just being me and it is getting better. I went to the intensive in September and I wanted to meet you, but I was in a state of confusion, joy, and sadness. I saw that you were in a state that you didn’t need another needy person to be near you. I love how open you were at the intensive and in this video, it helped me to see that my sadness isn’t something that I need to hide. That I can be free and express myself, my emotions and it isn’t my obligation to protect someone else from them. So saying this I wish I had met you, that I was willing to look at you and just cry or whatever would have come up (I usually have the urge to cry – that makes me look so confident and together right?). To know that I wouldn’t be taking anything from you and that you needed nothing from me. It would just be a space of vulnerability and love! I love you because I see you, you are beautiful and make me feel safe and that I can be me and love me! Thank you!!?
I want to connect with people, but I am terrified that I’m going to drain them because of being needy or that I need to be helpful in someway. I am reaching out to people and just being me and it is getting better. I went to the intensive in September and I wanted to meet you, but I was in a state of confusion, joy, and sadness. I saw that you were in a state that you didn’t need another needy person to be near you. I love how open you were at the intensive and in this video, it helped me to see that my sadness isn’t something that I need to hide. That I can be free and express myself, my emotions and it isn’t my obligation to protect someone else from them. So saying this I wish I had met you, that I was willing to look at you and just cry or whatever would have come up (I usually have the urge to cry – that makes me look so confident and together right?). To know that I wouldn’t be taking anything from you and that you needed nothing from me. It would just be a space of vulnerability and love! I love you because I see you, you are beautiful and make me feel safe and that I can be me and love me! Thank you!!