Allison Crow

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Allison peeking out from behind the book ADHD Figuring it OUt Step By Step; An A-Z by Leanne Maskell
ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Depression, Emotions, Personal Growth, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

Behind the Scenes of ADHD

January 31, 2023

  There’s an ADHD meme over on LinkedIn that is getting tons of traction. It’s funny because it is true. Many days living with an ADHD brain feels creative and fun, and yeah – it’s easy to make lots of jokes. Because ADHD and neurodivergence… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Emotions, Grief, HEART, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Love, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Wild Edge Of Being Human: Musings on Grief.

January 12, 2023

Grief does not feel like the wisest business strategy lately – Especially as a coach – A small protector part of me -influenced by “perfection only” past mentors, feels this deep obligation to be cheery and “positive.” (Those same mentors always “shoulded” that concise was… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Coaching, Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Self Compassion, Wild Edges of Being Human

New Years Goals? Not Yet

January 10, 2023

New Year Goals? A Business Plan?   Not Yet.   The magic space that is my office… here at this desk and in these journals, and even at this computer where I get to connect with my clients and friends.   I still haven’t really… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Art, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, Emotions, Follow & Feel Your Heart, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Money, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Purpose, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance

Recovering Overachiever Complete

December 30, 2022

Yes, it’s the time of year when I think about what I desire for the year ahead. And the slowness and space help me FEEL and notice my cravings (the deeper under the “don’t feel” cravings)…. and my feelings actually give me so much information…. [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Online Business, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Remember, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

Fuck the Coaching Industry

December 14, 2022

My mind was so full of inspiration this morning. She wanted to go in about 17 different directions, listen to two different podcasts and one audiobook, and write 27 things for you.   Happy Mind, full of intention, running a bit fast.   Slow down,… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Creative Practice, Everyday Magic, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Money, Online Business, Personal Growth, Prosperity, Prosperous Coach, Sacred Journeys, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

How did I do it? Secrets to Making Your Dreams Happen.

December 1, 2022

How Did I Do It? Don’t let the photo fool you:   This was a big year for me. 3 MAJOR milestones accomplished.   In May, my pool was built- If you know me, this was my dream – not a family dream – so… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Creative Practice, Emotions, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

Let go to be in the moment

November 29, 2022

Tone: peaceful   Bianca Forte is the choice today. Carmel Cookie is my go-to.   For the last few months, I’ve been waking up with slightly anxious parts going through all the things pressing on me. Anxiety in the early morning is new for me…. [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Remember, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Your Leaders are Mortal

November 7, 2022

Your leaders, whether they show it or not, are human. After my heart attack – one of my former clients sent me a message saying, “I love you, and your heart attack scared the shit out of me because I relate to you & can’t… [read more]

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πŸ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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πŸ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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