Allison Crow

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Care of the Soul, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

How To Handle Your Inner Critic

February 24, 2023

Your Inner Critic, Inner Judger, and Shoulding parts need your love and affection – not banishment or elimination.   I’ve found it easier to give my affectionate presence to my anxious and depressed parts. Perhaps it is because I have been aware of them for… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Biz Secrets, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

The #1 Thing That Keeps People Stuck

February 10, 2023

Coaching is an art and science of behavior change, and wouldnโ€™t it be fun if it were actually as easy as โ€œchange your thinking, change your life?โ€  (And yes, I believed it was that simple for years- I’m sorry). Just changing our thinking is a… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Biz Secrets, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Transformation, Unarmored

How Internal Family Systems Coaching Impacted My CliftonStrengths Finder Results

February 8, 2023

How #internalfamilysystems and #ifscoaching impacted my #strengthsfinder results. I found this FASCINATING! Last fall, I had the opportunity to take my CliftonStrengths assessment again. While I had my previous results, I KNEW things would show up differently because I AM DIFFERENT. I am different from the young, eager woman striving for… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, IFS Coaching, Life Coaching, List, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Love Series, Soul-Full Living, Wild Edges of Being Human

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers

February 8, 2023

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers   Photos: The ACA Bill of Rights. The photos are of my handwritten version, and you can find the pdf version on the ACA website. The second photo is my visual reminder to be clear on… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Emotions, Grief, HEART, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Love, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Wild Edge Of Being Human: Musings on Grief.

January 12, 2023

Grief does not feel like the wisest business strategy lately – Especially as a coach – A small protector part of me -influenced by “perfection only” past mentors, feels this deep obligation to be cheery and “positive.” (Those same mentors always “shoulded” that concise was… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Coaching, Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Self Compassion, Wild Edges of Being Human

New Years Goals? Not Yet

January 10, 2023

New Year Goals? A Business Plan?   Not Yet.   The magic space that is my officeโ€ฆ here at this desk and in these journals, and even at this computer where I get to connect with my clients and friends.   I still havenโ€™t really… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Art, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, Emotions, Follow & Feel Your Heart, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Money, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Purpose, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance

Recovering Overachiever Complete

December 30, 2022

Yes, it’s the time of year when I think about what I desire for the year ahead. And the slowness and space help me FEEL and notice my cravings (the deeper under the “don’t feel” cravings)…. and my feelings actually give me so much information…. [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Creative Practice, Everyday Magic, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Money, Online Business, Personal Growth, Prosperity, Prosperous Coach, Sacred Journeys, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

How did I do it? Secrets to Making Your Dreams Happen.

December 1, 2022

How Did I Do It? Don’t let the photo fool you:   This was a big year for me. 3 MAJOR milestones accomplished.   In May, my pool was built- If you know me, this was my dream – not a family dream – so… [read more]

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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