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January 23, 2018

Insights from ONE day of coaching – more value than 10 days of information.

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  1. Angela C. Britton says: January 23, 2018 at 7:30 pm

    Hey boo…. ?

  2. Angela C. Britton says: January 23, 2018 at 7:30 pm

    Hey boo….

  3. Christy Chick Nash says: January 23, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    Hello Allison. ?❀️

  4. Christy Chick Nash says: January 23, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    Hello Allison.

  5. Kristen Kosinski says: January 23, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    Thanks for jumping on yet another LIVE video…always inspires…can’t help but join!!! ❀️

  6. Kristen Kosinski says: January 23, 2018 at 7:32 pm

    Thanks for jumping on yet another LIVE video…always inspires…can’t help but join!!!

  7. Andrea Jimenez says: January 23, 2018 at 7:34 pm

    Hello from California

  8. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 23, 2018 at 7:34 pm

    SHE’S BAAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  9. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 23, 2018 at 7:35 pm

    Girl how did you get your logo on your FB live!?!??!?!???

    • Allison Crow says: January 23, 2018 at 8:48 pm

      I’m a badass.

    • Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 23, 2018 at 8:49 pm

      Allison well duh but really

    • Allison Crow says: January 23, 2018 at 8:50 pm

      Tracey Lee Wallace fb creator

  10. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 23, 2018 at 7:35 pm

    Girl how did you get your logo on your FB live!?!??!?!

  11. David Stone says: January 23, 2018 at 7:35 pm

    Double down on those limitations, right?!?

  12. Kristen Kosinski says: January 23, 2018 at 7:35 pm

    I fucking did that yesterday in a session with Rich!

    • Allison Crow says: January 23, 2019 at 3:17 pm

      Look at this from last year.

  13. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 23, 2018 at 7:36 pm

    What we think determines our reality

  14. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 23, 2018 at 7:39 pm

    that was TOTALLY me this morning.

  15. Kristen Kosinski says: January 23, 2018 at 7:40 pm

    But Chocolate makes me feel soooooo good!

  16. Kristen Kosinski says: January 23, 2018 at 7:44 pm

    I love being a solo mom! It gives me FREEDOM!

  17. Angela Paris says: January 23, 2018 at 7:44 pm

    Hey pretty

  18. Jody Caunter Garcia says: January 23, 2018 at 7:50 pm

    These are good! Just jumped on.

  19. David Stone says: January 23, 2018 at 7:50 pm

    Yes – ??

  20. David Stone says: January 23, 2018 at 7:50 pm

    Yes –

  21. Angela C. Britton says: January 23, 2018 at 7:50 pm

    Powering me up… i love this.

  22. David Stone says: January 23, 2018 at 7:51 pm

    A judgmental diagnosis

  23. Kristen Kosinski says: January 23, 2018 at 7:53 pm

    Listening to you makes doing laundry JOY-FILLED!

  24. Fairfield Bain says: January 23, 2018 at 7:53 pm

    I like those positive diagnoses!

  25. David Stone says: January 23, 2018 at 8:03 pm

    It’s hard to hate up close. Lean in. ~ brene brown

  26. Christy Chick Nash says: January 23, 2018 at 8:03 pm

    So great!!

  27. Andrea Jimenez says: January 23, 2018 at 8:03 pm

    You’re great! Thank you!

  28. Christy Chick Nash says: January 23, 2018 at 8:04 pm

    Sending so much love ❀️

  29. Christy Chick Nash says: January 23, 2018 at 8:04 pm

    Sending so much love

  30. David Stone says: January 23, 2018 at 8:05 pm

    Fantastic broadcast. thanks Allison! ???

  31. David Stone says: January 23, 2018 at 8:05 pm

    Fantastic broadcast. thanks Allison!

  32. Laura Long says: January 23, 2018 at 8:47 pm

    Hello replay view

  33. Anita Barfoot Berg says: January 23, 2018 at 8:54 pm

    Replay! Too funny, I Was just asking myself these questions yesterday ? excuses, limitation or my truth… long pause! Arguing for limitations! ?

  34. Anita Barfoot Berg says: January 23, 2018 at 8:54 pm

    Replay! Too funny, I Was just asking myself these questions yesterday excuses, limitation or my truth… long pause! Arguing for limitations!

  35. Laura Long says: January 23, 2018 at 9:07 pm

    Getting value

  36. Michelle Jeanette says: January 24, 2018 at 2:23 am

    It seems unnatural to want to sit with discomfort…I’m not understanding this concept. When my body feels like its dying (like right now) of course I don’t want to feel the discomfort. I sure don’t want to sit with this fkn shit ??

  37. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:25 am

    Hi! Watching replay. Just came back from an event! Getting out and about. ❀️

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2018 at 3:57 am

      I did that tonight too. And I was uncomfortable but I did it anyway.

  38. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:25 am

    Hi! Watching replay. Just came back from an event! Getting out and about.

  39. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:45 am

    I’m so looking forward to what I run in to as excuses over the next several days.

  40. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:46 am

    ??? Do you get the β€œmanflu???” ???

  41. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:46 am

    Do you get the β€œmanflu???”

  42. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:48 am

    I feel wooo is me being the breadwinner. I don’t want to be the breadwinner!!!

  43. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:48 am

    Need to change my attitude and thinking!

  44. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:51 am

    β€œRelease the need to for it to be anything different!” Pow! ??

  45. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:51 am

    β€œRelease the need to for it to be anything different!” Pow!

  46. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 2:55 am

    β€œEase comes from discomfort.” Yes! Good stuff!

    • Michelle Jeanette says: January 24, 2018 at 3:10 am

      Please explain how… I’m seriously trying to grasp this ???

      I hope you’re feeling well and all better

    • Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 3:16 am

      Michelle Jeanette my experience when thinking about this is… when you’re uncomfortable for a time and keep doing whatever it is that’s uncomfortable it becomes easy over time. You can become β€œat ease” over something that once caused angst by embracing the discomfort and powering through. Things do become so much easier the more we do them and practice at them. I’ve done it time and time again on so many different things… you have too. It all started for me when I was 1 and I was learning to walk. ? Now I do it with ease and without thought.

      Hope that helps.

    • Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 3:16 am

      Michelle Jeanette my experience when thinking about this is… when you’re uncomfortable for a time and keep doing whatever it is that’s uncomfortable it becomes easy over time. You can become β€œat ease” over something that once caused angst by embracing the discomfort and powering through. Things do become so much easier the more we do them and practice at them. I’ve done it time and time again on so many different things… you have too. It all started for me when I was 1 and I was learning to walk. Now I do it with ease and without thought.

      Hope that helps.

      • Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 3:33 am

        Michelle Jeanette no problem. I loved this so much. Allison was on fire! I have fibromyalgia and I have become accustomed to the discomfort and pain over the last 17 years. I have my moments when it’s real bad, but for the most part I handle it with ease because I’m just used to it. It’s my new normal. Same goes for when you work out for a period of time. You start with 5lbs and before you know it you can do it with ease. Is that what you mean? Does that help at all?

    • Michelle Jeanette says: January 24, 2018 at 3:24 am

      Maybe I’m relating this to physical discomfort in my body, real physical pain… Trying to understand how that can become easy when the pain is acutely severe.

      I understand in terms of doing things outside our comfort zone… That does make sense…

      Maybe I’m relating different things here?

      Thank you for elaborating on this ?

    • Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 3:33 am

      Michelle Jeanette no problem. I loved this so much. Allison was on fire! ???❀️ I have fibromyalgia and I have become accustomed to the discomfort and pain over the last 17 years. I have my moments when it’s real bad, but for the most part I handle it with ease because I’m just used to it. It’s my new normal. Same goes for when you work out for a period of time. You start with 5lbs and before you know it you can do it with ease. Is that what you mean? Does that help at all?

    • Michelle Jeanette says: January 24, 2018 at 3:43 am

      Yes… sort of. I think so ?

      I’m realizing how much physical pain my body is experiencing. I have not been diagnosed with anything like fibro but I feel its the beginning of something like that and I’m actively making healing changes. I don’t want this physical pain to be my new normal.

      I empathize so much for people with fibro, my mom had it and so many people I love suffer with it.

      I hope what I’m experiencing is not that.

      If there’s no other choice but living with it and making the best of life then I will… But I want to believe I have a choice in the matter ???

      xo

    • Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 3:47 am

      Michelle Jeanette amen to that! Fibro sucks!

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2018 at 4:05 am

      Michelle Jeanette do not do anything I say to do that compromises your health

    • Michelle Jeanette says: January 24, 2018 at 4:08 am

      Noooooo of course not. I know where you’re coming from. xo

  47. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 3:00 am

    I love you! ❀️??

  48. Nadine Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 3:07 am

    I’m the worst procrastinator on things I don’t feel like doing.

  49. Tom Larder says: January 24, 2018 at 4:27 am

    Hi Allison

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2018 at 4:42 am

      Hi Tom!!!

  50. Samantha Fe says: January 24, 2018 at 4:32 am

    I love your mojo!!!!!

  51. Samantha Fe says: January 24, 2018 at 4:34 am

    Be the breadwinner baby!!!!!!!

  52. Samantha Fe says: January 24, 2018 at 4:35 am

    You’re so awesome!!!!

  53. Ana Caragea says: January 24, 2018 at 8:01 am

    Tons of excuses for me – I’m not old enough to be a successful coach, not experienced enough, not clear enough and so many more

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2018 at 12:35 pm

      Yeah- drop those ?

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2018 at 12:35 pm

      Yeah- drop those

  54. Rona Sterling-Collins says: January 24, 2018 at 8:29 am

    Thank you Allison ?

  55. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:19 pm

    So true about the problem being great value!

  56. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:22 pm

    Tons of value! ???

  57. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:22 pm

    Tons of value!

  58. Lee Ann Ray says: January 24, 2018 at 1:22 pm

    Hi Allison!

  59. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:24 pm

    Why do we feel anything? Because we believe a thought. Awesome!

  60. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:30 pm

    Omg I avoid discomfort till the situation is a train wreck and then I wallow in self pity! Wow! You just unclogged something for me!

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2018 at 9:28 pm

      Glad to be your plunger.

  61. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:31 pm

    ????

  62. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:33 pm

    Angel Investor! Love!

  63. Angela Paris says: January 24, 2018 at 1:37 pm

    Love and adore you! Friday is the last day of my current battle! You always have perfect timing for me!

  64. Allison Field says: January 24, 2018 at 9:58 pm

    Thanks for sharing what you got from your experience! I’m familiar with the notion that discomfort=death!

    • Allison Crow says: January 24, 2018 at 10:06 pm

      Me too. At a cellular level! Releasing and rewiring that.

    • Allison Field says: January 24, 2018 at 11:30 pm

      I’m doing it daily too! ?

    • Allison Field says: January 24, 2018 at 11:30 pm

      I’m doing it daily too!

  65. Camille Tyler says: January 24, 2018 at 11:11 pm

    It’s the reply

  66. Camille Tyler says: January 24, 2018 at 11:13 pm

    That’s OK I love your southern draw Darl’in

  67. Cristina Palma says: January 25, 2018 at 12:50 pm

    Hello ??

  68. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 25, 2018 at 7:15 pm

    Watching the replay too!

  69. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 26, 2018 at 1:05 pm

    Your energy is so infectious! You cant sit still you’re so excited!!!

    • Allison Crow says: January 26, 2018 at 2:29 pm

      This was a fun one. I was super energized. Getting out of my house and my comfort zone always does me good.

  70. Gisele Cabral says: January 26, 2018 at 4:30 pm

    Thank you!! I soo needed to hear you today! Once again

    • Allison Crow says: January 26, 2018 at 6:00 pm

      I am
      So glad it helped ?

    • Allison Crow says: January 26, 2018 at 6:00 pm

      I am
      So glad it helped

  71. Cristi Cuellar says: January 27, 2018 at 12:04 am

    There’s no trophy in the mail for _____!!! Lol

  72. Catherine Schoen says: January 27, 2018 at 6:38 am

    Great replay xx

  73. Liza Boubari says: January 27, 2018 at 3:53 pm

    Hi Dear

  74. Angela Paris says: January 23, 2019 at 3:17 pm

    Hi replay

  75. Judy Vinluan says: January 23, 2019 at 6:52 pm

    Replay

  76. Florie Bell-Varga says: January 23, 2019 at 10:13 pm

    Coach around insight. Oh I love that!

  77. Vanessa Kinsey says: January 24, 2019 at 4:40 am

    Ahhh that’s what it’s called: avoiding discomfort

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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