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Relationship and Referral Only? Are you accidentally running a secret business

January 9, 2021

Relationship and Referral Only? Are you accidentally running a secret business?

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Advanced Personal Development Life Coach for Experienced Business Owners & ExecsπŸ’›Author, Art, & Dogs

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  1. Maggie Grace says: January 9, 2021 at 8:00 pm

    Twice in one day?!?! Bonus

  2. Joshua Kreitzman says: January 9, 2021 at 8:05 pm

    That’s how I met my wife

    • Allison Crow says: January 9, 2021 at 8:27 pm

      Joshua Kreitzman I meet all my husbands online.

      • Deidra Towns says: January 10, 2021 at 3:06 pm

        Allison Crow β€œALL” of them?

        • Allison Crow says: January 10, 2021 at 3:28 pm

          Deidra Towns 2 so far.

  3. Maggie Grace says: January 9, 2021 at 8:18 pm

    Hi bye love you

  4. Alexandra Serediuc says: January 9, 2021 at 8:25 pm

    Totally superficial comment: I LOOOOOOOOOVEEEEEE the lipstick

  5. Kay Parker Blond says: January 9, 2021 at 8:54 pm

    Those lips speak the truth!

    • Allison Crow says: January 9, 2021 at 8:55 pm

      Kay Parker Blond maybe hot pink is a new part of my brand upgrade

      • Kay Parker Blond says: January 9, 2021 at 9:08 pm

        Allison Crow totally! What brand and color is it?

  6. Jayne Daly says: January 9, 2021 at 10:41 pm

    Kiss me w those lips

  7. Deidra Towns says: January 10, 2021 at 9:01 am

    Replay….

  8. Deidra Towns says: January 10, 2021 at 3:16 pm

    This is so good!

  9. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:34 pm

    By referrals is so

  10. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:38 pm

    Allison crow is the number 1 marketer love all the GOLD sparkle

  11. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:40 pm

    Brain and heart wellness is my book

  12. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:42 pm

    Love Rich Litvin

  13. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:43 pm

    Yes Art to the back and coaching to the front

  14. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:45 pm

    Brilliant live the Brand you are building

  15. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:46 pm

    Yes share value before sale

  16. Margaret Hardway says: January 10, 2021 at 10:48 pm

    Replays

  17. Katie Elenberger says: January 12, 2021 at 12:20 am
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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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