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Should I go into real estate (or XYZ) or get a job or follow my dream? A question I get asked often and definitely have an opinion on.

July 12, 2017

Should I go into real estate (or XYZ) or get a job or follow my dream? A question I get asked often and definitely have an opinion on.

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  1. Rebecca Anne says: July 10, 2017 at 5:13 pm

    :))

  2. Angie Cole says: July 10, 2017 at 5:13 pm

    Hi Rebecca!!!

  3. Leela Sinha says: July 10, 2017 at 5:16 pm

    “vagina tingle” YES πŸ™‚

  4. Jennifer Goorchenko says: July 10, 2017 at 5:18 pm

    You are just awesome!!!! I’m going to have to share this with some friends!!! *vageenatingle

  5. Anita Barfoot Berg says: July 10, 2017 at 5:19 pm

    Your on a roll! ?

  6. Ron Papke says: July 10, 2017 at 5:20 pm

    #allisonstrong ❀️❀️❀️???

  7. Melanie Schroeder says: July 10, 2017 at 5:21 pm

    Hi everyone!!!!

  8. Julie Maree says: July 10, 2017 at 5:22 pm

    Thank you for confirmation! I just had an immediate offer come through and I’m going to launch it today!

    • Allison Crow says: July 10, 2017 at 6:07 pm

      Go for it!

  9. Anita Barfoot Berg says: July 10, 2017 at 5:23 pm

    Too funny, I was just thinking this very thing…just do it!

  10. Ron Papke says: July 10, 2017 at 5:25 pm

    #thecarpetcleanerman….hehe

  11. Laura Haviland says: July 10, 2017 at 5:26 pm

    Gotta run..your so full of such positive inspiration..thank you.xoxo

  12. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:30 pm

    Hi Babe!!

  13. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:30 pm

    Yayyyy pool project

  14. Leela Sinha says: July 10, 2017 at 5:31 pm

    recently figured out that even if I could afford it, I wouldn’t want the Hearst mansion in Berkeley (which is for sale) because it’s not the right fit. Like your jimmy choos, I don’t actually want THAT layout.

  15. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:32 pm

    So excited for you.

  16. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:32 pm

    ? pre pool ? party ? coaching circles

  17. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:32 pm

    pre pool party coaching circles

  18. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:33 pm

    It’ll be so fun designing the pool in paintings

  19. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:33 pm

    Yay hope

  20. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    Hmmmm coincidence in the awesome name Hope ? I think not

  21. Lauren Bloch DelGandio says: July 10, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    Hi stranger!!!

  22. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    John wants me to be a realtor right now.

  23. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    The rapid fire of the manifestation is what’s zinging with me

  24. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:34 pm

    Isn’t that funny!

  25. Julie Maree says: July 10, 2017 at 5:35 pm

    I love the doing that supports my BE-ing ??

  26. Julie Maree says: July 10, 2017 at 5:35 pm

    I love the doing that supports my BE-ing

  27. KT Ronshausen says: July 10, 2017 at 5:35 pm

    Love this! Vibrationally I have to be really focused/mindful in my dreaming, otherwise I’m sending out the vibration of “I want this but I don’t have it”. Self-fulfilling prophecy!

  28. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:35 pm

    Hi pretty!?

  29. Anita Barfoot Berg says: July 10, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    Stay tuned I’m going to apply this well needed affirmation of my thoughts! ?you rock lady.

  30. Anita Barfoot Berg says: July 10, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    Stay tuned I’m going to apply this well needed affirmation of my thoughts! you rock lady.

  31. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    I love my life’s work right now. Your coaching has transformed my life.

    • Allison Crow says: July 10, 2018 at 3:56 pm

      Remember when John wanted you to be a realtor – buahahaha

    • Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2018 at 5:22 pm

      Allison Crow right!

  32. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:38 pm

    I agree you have inspired me

  33. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:38 pm

    Yessss!! Exciting

  34. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:38 pm

    Yes! It was a huge step.

  35. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:38 pm

    Quit iffing on yourself

  36. Laura Long says: July 10, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    Call it …an easy yes offer

  37. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    Align yourself and you will arrive where you should!

  38. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    Of course ! It’s working as we speak!

  39. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    You taught me that

  40. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    Rest. Don’t quit!!!!

  41. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    I know…

  42. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    I’m so resting today –

  43. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Love you!!!

    • Allison Crow says: July 10, 2017 at 6:06 pm

      Love you.

  44. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Its nice to see your face!?

  45. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Its nice to see your face!

  46. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Can’t NOT do it . ?

  47. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Can’t NOT do it .

  48. Laura Long says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Congratulations

  49. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Checking it

  50. Anita Barfoot Berg says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Thanks for keeping it real and being so inspirational! ?

  51. Anita Barfoot Berg says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Thanks for keeping it real and being so inspirational!

  52. Ingrid Gans says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Oh my goodness, I’ve not been around/online much. Now that I see you I know I missed you!

    • Allison Crow says: July 10, 2017 at 6:06 pm

      What a sweet thing to say. I haven’t been live in weeks.

    • Allison Crow says: July 10, 2017 at 6:06 pm

      I needed a break too.

    • Ingrid Gans says: July 10, 2017 at 6:09 pm

      So we’ve been in sync anyway. I thought it was just me… So good to sniff up your vibes again ? and hear your doggies bark ?

    • Ingrid Gans says: July 10, 2017 at 6:09 pm

      So we’ve been in sync anyway. I thought it was just me… So good to sniff up your vibes again and hear your doggies bark

  53. Sahar J says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Loved today’s conversation..very juicy and aligned

  54. Diane Bleck says: July 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    Yes! ?

  55. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:42 pm

    Maybe I can finally afford you! Yay!!!!!!

  56. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:42 pm

    You are worth every penny though,

  57. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:43 pm

    But I need electricity

  58. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 5:43 pm

    Single mommy!

  59. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:43 pm

    Absolutely!!!
    So it is ! The laws of stratospheric success –

  60. Steph Levine says: July 10, 2017 at 5:44 pm

    The Go Giver s law

  61. Ana Caragea says: July 10, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    Hey Allison ?? missed you

    • Allison Crow says: July 10, 2017 at 6:17 pm

      Hi Ana Caragea!!!

  62. Ana Caragea says: July 10, 2017 at 6:09 pm

    Hey Allison missed you

  63. Randi Radul says: July 10, 2017 at 6:33 pm

    Your energy is amazing!!!!! And contagious!

  64. Christine Volden Pereira says: July 10, 2017 at 6:45 pm

    hi, checking the replay!

  65. Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 6:49 pm

    Being your own angel investors…

  66. Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 7:05 pm

    Me tooo… i have to have my own financial stability !!:)))

  67. Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 7:06 pm

    I want a fairy job… something with magic in it!! ( I said it!)

  68. Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 7:07 pm

    Angel investor job!!:))))

  69. Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 7:11 pm

    Quite “if’in” lol

  70. Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 7:11 pm

    Make an offer for a immediate response!!!!

  71. Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 7:12 pm

    Great podcast !!!

  72. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:17 pm

    I love your boldness with what you ask Spirit for! Lighten a fire in me!?

  73. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:17 pm

    I love your boldness with what you ask Spirit for! Lighten a fire in me!

  74. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:18 pm

    “This girl is on fire!” ?

  75. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:18 pm

    “This girl is on fire!”

  76. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:21 pm

    Just do it!❀

  77. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:21 pm

    Just do it!

  78. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:25 pm

    Yes!!!!!! Glad your mojo is back!❀You were inspiring even when you thought it was gone! Maybe you had to ebb to come rescue others ebbing so we can all flow!??

  79. Angela Paris says: July 10, 2017 at 8:25 pm

    Yes!!!!!! Glad your mojo is back!You were inspiring even when you thought it was gone! Maybe you had to ebb to come rescue others ebbing so we can all flow!

  80. Outi Harma says: July 10, 2017 at 9:07 pm

    ha! Allison you funny and on fire πŸ™‚ saying the like it is! Good advise there!

    • Allison Crow says: July 10, 2017 at 9:28 pm

      ?

  81. KT Ronshausen says: July 10, 2017 at 9:48 pm

    Ever since watching you this morning I’ve been using the mantra “I Am an Angel Investor” — LOVIN’ IT!

    • Cristina Palma says: July 10, 2017 at 9:52 pm

      I love that title too!

  82. Elaine Blais says: July 10, 2017 at 11:14 pm

    Make an offer for immediate response ❀️ I soooo needed to hear this. Thank you for you wisdom Alison ????❀️

  83. Elaine Blais says: July 10, 2017 at 11:14 pm

    Make an offer for immediate response I soooo needed to hear this. Thank you for you wisdom Alison

  84. Helen May says: July 10, 2017 at 11:51 pm

    “There are no guarantees….. but if you don’t try it’s guaranteed it won’t work!”

  85. Ashish Bhardwaj says: July 11, 2017 at 6:31 am

    Hi

  86. Lindsay Joy says: July 11, 2017 at 10:52 am

    I would follow your gut. Always 100% follow your gut. Happiness lives there.

  87. Deidra Towns says: July 11, 2017 at 10:59 am

    I’m creating something new while I’m moving too

  88. Sara Alvarado says: July 11, 2017 at 2:58 pm

    I love daydreaming too! And the permission to daydream without feeling like I’m not following through on my dreams.

    • Sara Alvarado says: July 11, 2017 at 3:20 pm

      Allison Crow I’m so excited for your adventure. It was fun to candy crush and listen to this 30 minutes of inspiration and update! You make me smile!

    • Allison Crow says: July 11, 2017 at 3:22 pm

      Sara Alvarado I love you. I miss you.

    • Sara Alvarado says: July 11, 2017 at 3:22 pm

      Allison Crow I miss you too.

  89. Allison Crow says: July 11, 2017 at 3:19 pm

    And when the daydreaming starts to loose pleasure and gets irritating- time to start doing.

  90. Wenzie Garcia says: July 12, 2017 at 3:03 am

    I love this!

  91. Jennifer Thomas Adams says: July 12, 2017 at 6:57 am

    Quit barkin! ???

  92. Jennifer Thomas Adams says: July 12, 2017 at 6:57 am

    Quit barkin!

  93. Allison Crow says: July 10, 2018 at 3:34 pm

    ???

  94. KT Ronshausen says: July 10, 2018 at 3:48 pm

    OMG WOW. These thoughts were just on my mind again yesterday… I even spoke out loud to Gin some things you said I remember from this video… and holy shit it was 1 year ago exactly?! ?

    Ah. I breathe. I remember, of course, it’s all cyclical. Just keep swimming ?

  95. KT Ronshausen says: July 10, 2018 at 3:48 pm

    OMG WOW. These thoughts were just on my mind again yesterday… I even spoke out loud to Gin some things you said I remember from this video… and holy shit it was 1 year ago exactly?!

    Ah. I breathe. I remember, of course, it’s all cyclical. Just keep swimming

  96. Deidra Towns says: July 10, 2018 at 3:53 pm

    β€œBall tingle!”??????

  97. Deidra Towns says: July 10, 2018 at 3:53 pm

    β€œBall tingle!”

  98. Allison Crow says: July 10, 2018 at 3:55 pm

    I gotta get back on track with that pool!

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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