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Wiling to be the onion, sums of growth from all the parts, old agreement, keto, and a reading to help you release so you can BE DO HAVE what you want

July 27, 2018

Wiling to be the onion, sums of growth from all the parts, old agreement, keto, and a gentlereading to help you release so you can BE DO HAVE what you want.

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  1. Joelle Collins Bohart says: July 24, 2018 at 11:37 pm

    You go allison

  2. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:39 pm

    Its holistic ???

  3. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:39 pm

    Every facet of our BEing

  4. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:39 pm

    Balance

  5. Angie Mattson Stegall says: July 24, 2018 at 11:40 pm

    This is why I think we would be besties if we lived anywhere near each other. <3

  6. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:40 pm

    I love studying and learning… Growing… I like reading those pubmed articles lol

  7. Diane Reiner says: July 24, 2018 at 11:40 pm

    Major iceburg

  8. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:41 pm

    Be the onion ? new layers surface

  9. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:43 pm

    EAT REAL FOOD ???

  10. Diane Reiner says: July 24, 2018 at 11:43 pm

    Working on the comfort of peeling the layers back.

  11. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:45 pm

    I’m so happy you’re doing this ?

  12. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:50 pm

    Prayers are so powerful

  13. Andrea Edwards Hamel says: July 24, 2018 at 11:53 pm

    Hey, hey πŸ™‚

  14. Kimberley Kaase says: July 24, 2018 at 11:56 pm

    I’m watching!

  15. Michelle Jeanette says: July 24, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    Amen to all that!

  16. Joelle Collins Bohart says: July 24, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    And so it is

  17. Kimberley Kaase says: July 24, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    ❀️ Matt Kahn

  18. Kimberley Kaase says: July 24, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    Matt Kahn

  19. Joelle Collins Bohart says: July 24, 2018 at 11:59 pm

    It’s soooooo good

  20. Joelle Collins Bohart says: July 25, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Yessss

  21. Joelle Collins Bohart says: July 25, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Give it love

  22. Angie Mattson Stegall says: July 25, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Yessssssss.

  23. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:01 am

    I’ve been doing that in road rage… God bless them God bless me… Feels much better

  24. Diane Reiner says: July 25, 2018 at 12:01 am

    The onion layers are all the things holding us back:(. Allison our onion peeler:)

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 2:58 am

      Oh I love this journey!

  25. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:02 am

    Thanks for talking about Keto, just started…

  26. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:03 am

    Fucking love that!

  27. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:06 am

    Lololol

  28. Linda Piazza says: July 25, 2018 at 12:07 am

    I am hearing this Keto everywhere this last week

  29. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:07 am

    I support me ???

  30. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:09 am

    Reflecting

  31. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:09 am

    I enjoy learning from you… I had a difficult time with keto… I like the eating for my blood type

  32. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:09 am

    But I don’t want to give up my fruits

  33. Angie Mattson Stegall says: July 25, 2018 at 12:10 am

    Whooo! I do that, too. Questions are my fave! πŸ™‚

  34. Michelle McMahon Stephens says: July 25, 2018 at 12:12 am

    Fruit was hard for me too when I did keto, Michelle Jeanette

  35. Sue Keely says: July 25, 2018 at 12:12 am

    Life is layers

  36. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:13 am

    Fresh caught… No farm raised ?

  37. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:13 am

    Just love you!

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 2:59 am

      Thank you. It was good to see you tonight!

  38. Sue Keely says: July 25, 2018 at 12:13 am

    I enjoy life-long learning too. Having wine on the deck while watching.

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 2:59 am

      I’m on my way!!!

  39. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:13 am

    What is your best keto find so far?

  40. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:13 am

    Cheers ??

  41. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:14 am

    4 more than me

  42. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:14 am

    Even frozen seafood and fish gotta check… Nothing from china sorry but no

  43. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:15 am

    Yum!

  44. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:15 am

    Sounds yummy

  45. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:15 am

    Wine!

  46. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:15 am

    Which I love!

  47. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:16 am

    I have made that avo mousse, it is de- lush!

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 3:00 am

      Yum. Can’t wait to try.

  48. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:16 am

    Avocado makes it so creamy delicious

  49. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:16 am

    I will definitely look in to Butcher Box

  50. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:16 am

    Yes ATX has great resources for healthy foods

  51. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:18 am

    Do you like/can you have almond or nut milks?

  52. Kimberley Kaase says: July 25, 2018 at 12:19 am

    I looked up a naan bread keto recipe that looked decent…

  53. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:20 am

    Have fun with it

  54. Diane Reiner says: July 25, 2018 at 12:21 am

    Haven’t done the instant pot but I love the crockpot

  55. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:22 am

    #lifeforcefoods ?

  56. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:25 am

    My apologies for encouraging the DQ

  57. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:26 am

    Its all about balance… And I like to pray over my food and bless it all… Even the ice cream

  58. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:27 am

    Exactly! There you go!!! ??????

  59. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 12:28 am

    Wrapping up work and so much better when watching your live

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 3:01 am

      Aw thanks!

  60. Monique van Grinsven says: July 25, 2018 at 2:29 am

    You got my support…peeling , Keto, cooking, walking and keeping it balanced. You go girl!!! I love YOU and you are beautiful inside and out being you!

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 2:53 am

      Thank you wise sister. You have held such loving space for me for years!!!! I love you mo.

    • Monique van Grinsven says: July 25, 2018 at 1:22 pm

      ?

  61. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:32 am

    Awesome doc! The approach is so key.

  62. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:33 am

    Yes realizing there is more than what we see

  63. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:36 am

    I LOVE to study ❀️ too

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 2:54 am

      We are awesome study ? nerds.

  64. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:36 am

    I LOVE to study too

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 2:54 am

      We are awesome study nerds.

  65. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:37 am

    Oh inner emotional work is a biggie!

  66. Wendy Johnson Burge says: July 25, 2018 at 2:41 am

    So true. It’s a faith walk.

  67. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:45 am

    Yeah to learning new things ?

  68. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:45 am

    Yeah to learning new things

  69. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:51 am

    Oh the unconscious tape that runs continuously on very low volume was such an eye opener for me

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 2:55 am

      So many layers. Lee shrinking the light and the shadows begin to surface…. especially when we learn how to hold and be with our shadows.

    • Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:26 am

      Allison Crow yes when we learn to truly support and hold ourselves – all the dust bunnies come out from under the bed and out of the back of the closet ??

    • Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:26 am

      Allison Crow yes when we learn to truly support and hold ourselves – all the dust bunnies come out from under the bed and out of the back of the closet

  70. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:51 am

    Totally hear you on finding clothes that I feel cute in

  71. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:52 am

    Oh that’s beautiful – cultivating your life

  72. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:58 am

    Awesome prayer ❀️

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 3:02 am

      Wasn’t that lovely. Healing.

  73. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 2:58 am

    Awesome prayer

  74. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:02 am

    Relaxing which helps reduce cortisol production which = happier hormones and adrenals ?

  75. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:02 am

    Relaxing which helps reduce cortisol production which = happier hormones and adrenals

  76. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:03 am

    Love that you and Bill are doing this together

  77. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:06 am

    A multi-faceted approach

  78. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:08 am

    I have found that β€œinvesting” in good quality food is an investment in our health. Which was a total reframe of the way I grew up and was taught.

  79. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:10 am

    Inner emotional work has been a big missing piece for me up until the past 1.5 years.

  80. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:14 am

    A big whoo Hoo to you for really diving in and learning so much and implementing like a frickin! BOSS ?⚑️✨

  81. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:14 am

    A big whoo Hoo to you for really diving in and learning so much and implementing like a frickin! BOSS

  82. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:15 am

    All the yummy fat really helps to satiate your hunger so you don’t crave things

  83. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:15 am

    Chocolate mousse with avocados ❀️. Great in smoothies too

  84. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:15 am

    Chocolate mousse with avocados . Great in smoothies too

  85. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:16 am

    Lmk about butcher box, I have been taking about it for awhile too

  86. Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey says: July 25, 2018 at 3:17 am

    I’ve been looking for over a year to find a Dr like that in Denver… If you remember next time you see him if he has a recommendation in Denver

  87. Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey says: July 25, 2018 at 3:18 am

    Yep we’ve had a hard time getting Naturethroid too

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 3:54 am

      It’s back now. The substitute was not sufficient

    • Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey says: July 25, 2018 at 4:27 am

      agreed… The 130 is still out of stock so I take two of the 65

  88. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:18 am

    We are lucky we have a local co-op where we get raw organic full fat milk, yogurt, cheese, grass-fed meats

  89. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:20 am

    Love my small food processor. Great for chopping fresh herbs, making dressings, chopping veggies up super fine and super quick

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 3:53 am

      I’ve never used one. I get to learn.

    • Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 11:41 am

      Allison Crow ?

  90. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:21 am

    Yes enjoy with all of your senses

  91. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:23 am

    Oh yes getting the inflammation down!

  92. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:24 am

    You are looking so ALIVE and VIBRANT ❀️. This was a great one ?

  93. Leslie Typrin says: July 25, 2018 at 3:24 am

    You are looking so ALIVE and VIBRANT . This was a great one

  94. Tammy Judd Jenny says: July 25, 2018 at 3:24 am

    Replay. Made it to the end. πŸ˜€

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 3:53 am

      Hooray! You win!

    • Tammy Judd Jenny says: July 25, 2018 at 5:29 am

      Allison Crow thanks for sharing your process. I’m so proud of you for trying and learning new things. You inspire me. ?

    • Tammy Judd Jenny says: July 25, 2018 at 5:29 am

      Allison Crow thanks for sharing your process. I’m so proud of you for trying and learning new things. You inspire me.

  95. Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey says: July 25, 2018 at 4:36 am

    Ok I watched the whole thing and didn’t see specifics of what you’re doing with fasting or what you mean by modified keto?

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 11:39 am

      Start at dietdoctor.com. I thought you meant specifics of hormones. Sorry. ?

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 11:39 am

      Start at dietdoctor.com. I thought you meant specifics of hormones. Sorry.

      • Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey says: July 25, 2018 at 4:24 pm

        thx love!

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 11:40 am

      I’m not strict. As in I have dairy and some sugar. And between 20-30 carbs a day. I’m trying for 20 but will be gracious if I go over. Under 50 is

    • Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey says: July 25, 2018 at 3:49 pm

      Allison ok so tell me about the fasting part?

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 4:23 pm

      Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey https://www.dietdoctor.com/intermittent-fasting

    • Cyndi Warembourg Carfrey says: July 25, 2018 at 4:24 pm

      thx love! ?

  96. Darlene Versak says: July 25, 2018 at 9:52 am

    I can change 1 degree at a time and definitely change in layers. We are spiraling onions.

  97. Helen May says: July 25, 2018 at 12:52 pm

    Replay viewer

    • Allison Crow says: July 25, 2018 at 3:01 am

      Welcome love.

  98. Natasha Parks Schmidt says: July 25, 2018 at 4:33 pm

    Have you seen how Keto May improve anxiety? That’s why I started it.

  99. Michelle Jeanette says: July 25, 2018 at 5:20 pm

    What Chapter was this prayer from in Matt Khan’s book… I need to bookmark that and listen to that again… So good! ??

  100. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 1:10 am

    Fan-tastic Allison!!

  101. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 1:11 am

    ???????

    • Allison Crow says: July 26, 2018 at 11:25 am

      β™₯️β™₯️β™₯️

    • Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 12:22 pm

      Feeling so inspired by this new direction for you Allison!β™‘β™‘

  102. Melinda Barber says: July 26, 2018 at 1:35 am

    Hi Allison ?

  103. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 12:20 pm

    I’ve been listening and reading Matt Kahn for years now. His sharings have been enormously helpful and transformative in my life. Really pleased you’re benefiting and sharing his wonderful work Allison!

  104. Ellen Watkins says: July 26, 2018 at 12:37 pm

    Replay. ??

  105. Ellen Watkins says: July 26, 2018 at 12:42 pm

    Ha! I think of my steps like Giraffe steps – looks slow and easy but they are looong. Has!

  106. Ellen Watkins says: July 26, 2018 at 12:42 pm

    Haaaa! Not has. ?

  107. Ellen Watkins says: July 26, 2018 at 12:42 pm

    Haaaa! Not has.

  108. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 12:51 pm

    The spiral is a Celtic symbol

  109. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 12:53 pm

    Love that – ‘smells like food!’

  110. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 12:56 pm

    always… evolving…. learning…. growing

  111. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 1:07 pm

    Hmmm…. new agreements?

  112. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 1:07 pm

    Hmmm…. new agreements

  113. Ellen Watkins says: July 26, 2018 at 1:58 pm

    Made it to the end! ??

    • Allison Crow says: July 26, 2018 at 2:03 pm

      Yayaya love you.

  114. Ellen Watkins says: July 26, 2018 at 1:58 pm

    Made it to the end!

  115. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 2:57 pm

    I have a bit of that grocery store overwhelm too

  116. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 3:08 pm

    Bread is not one that’s hard to cut out for me

  117. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 3:20 pm

    Thanks Allison!! I’m at the end!!!?

  118. Helen May says: July 26, 2018 at 3:20 pm

    Thanks Allison!! I’m at the end!!!

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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