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3 Things You Can Do Today to Live & Feel Better

August 9, 2017

Hello Magic Friends – 

Yes, you are magic and I am here to remind you how fucking delicious and brilliant you are.  I’m a bit on fire today – and the last few weeks.  Ever since my own amazing breakdown –I remembered who I was! Who I am, who I be…the lights came back on. 

That shit happens in life.  But you know what is about to happen, is your and my FUTURE.  The future we are creating!  And when we keep moaning on about the past – like I did – it sinks into our skin and cells and bones like a thick sludge.  

So I’m in your inbox today to remind you that you are a Super Nova— you are Stardust…and if those are too ephemeral for you –  You are a human being who has the ability to get up, shake the dust off of ordinary life by doing these three things: 

1.  Move Your Body.  Grab that device in your hand or on your desk and turn on one dance song…..get up, move and Shake it Off.  Here…here’s one for you…. SHAKE IT OFF.  Dance, wiggle, walk, and shake to this, or ANY song and you will instantly raise your vibration and mojo.  

2. Stop your shitty Thinking.  If you are feeling shitty, it’s because your thinking is in a rut.  Again, I know this because I’ve lived it and I’ve gotten out of the rut with ONE decision, and so can you.  You can thinkANYTHING you want about your self.  I always say everything is made up — so make up something good.  Here is a list of shitty thinking that we have all engaged in that rots our souls and robs our joy —

  • blaming others
  • blaming yourself
  • avoiding responsibility
  • lying to yourself
  • stop projecting your shit on to others
  • delusional thinking
  • being committed to your excuses
  • resisting owning your shit and moving on
  • dragging your past with you. 

3. Focus on your Future – on what you want to create instead of what has happened in the past. Give your self a project and get to work.  Stop dragging the past around with you. So what. Y’all know I love to just BE in the present moment – and, it is important to have something to create, to look forward to – organic matter (you are organic matter) does best when it moves and grows – and so if you are stale, it’s because you aren’t moving and growing.  

SO WHAT – about all your past, so what about your conditions.  You wanna know how to change your lame conditions, move your body, change your thinking and start scheeming and dreaming about what you want to create in the next season of your life and take action on it.

 

BIG LOVE, Your Favorite Life Coach

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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