Allison Crow

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success

Building Capacity for Deeper Work – Self Leadership

March 17, 2022

For years I have been good at connecting with YOU, while still protecting and disconnecting from me. (This strategy is ineffective). My nervous system was conditioned to assess threat- yours is tooโ€ฆ and because I didnโ€™t know internal connection and safety – I tried to… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Life, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership, Transformation

Set D.U.M.B. Goals

February 26, 2022

Hey, Hey, it’s been a while since I recorded a podcast. I pretty much have taken all of February offโ€ฆ little life drama in a couple of areas going on and I just made space for myself to not be constantly creating. So this is… [read more]

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Alignment, Anxiety, Coaching, Energetic Work, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Self Leadership

Itch or Flow

February 16, 2022

Hereโ€™s a distinction Iโ€™d like to present for your Soulfull consideration: Is your desire from discomfort or innate drive? The itch is dehydrated, thirsty, and scratchy. Flow is supple, emergent on its own, and overflowing. Is your expression from performance and thirst or is it… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership

How To Use The 8 Cs of IFS to support your business

December 2, 2021

How the 8 Cs of Internal Family System can support your work. IFS is a non pathologizing evidenced based model. Itโ€™s a means of working with our many thoughts, emotions, beliefs, behaviors and different parts of ourselves that make up the natural multiplicity of the… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Anxiety, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth

Deep Inner-Work – Both/AND

October 21, 2021

If you are doing deep inner work, transformational work- I see you and honor you and GET that itโ€™s a scribbly-rollercoaster ride of ups-down-all-around. I get that it can be heavy being with some of these parts. Today I want to remind you that both… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Emotions, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Inner Whisper, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Remember, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Too Much Woman

Drop Below Your Head to Inner Authority

October 20, 2021

  Inner Authority: hello fellow recovering people pleasers. Hello, over-functioning and over-empathic leaders.   All these things work until they donโ€™tโ€ฆ and now here you are realizing so much of what made you successful was behavioral patterns born out of childhood trauma, emotional neglectโ€ฆ. And… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Conversations, FB Live, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Releasing Resistance, Renewal

Strong leaders- independent overfunctioners, this is for you:

September 2, 2021

Strong leaders- independent overfunctioners, this is for you: Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Energetic Work, Everyday Magic, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership

You are a Gardener Not a Machine

July 22, 2021

Oh, how the world wants to press us into the idea that we can behave and perform like a machine in life and business. You, my DEARโ€ฆ and you are a dear one. You are a gardener, not a machine. This is your reminder to… [read more]

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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