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Hey Heart Centered Biz Owners….let’s talk about PAIN POINT MARKETING…You might be surprised at my take <3

August 6, 2019

Hey Heart Centered Biz Owners….let’s talk about PAIN POINT MARKETING…You might be surprised at my take <3

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  1. Lauren Stepanek Holder says: August 6, 2019 at 4:27 pm

    Hey!! ✋?

  2. Charlene Hutsebaut says: August 6, 2019 at 4:34 pm

    I do struggle with how to present my programmes to people. Thank you for doing this video.

  3. Charlene Hutsebaut says: August 6, 2019 at 4:36 pm

    Yes sister! I hear you.

  4. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:02 pm

    Were you reading my texts! Just talking about pain point marketing and my resistance to it

  5. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:02 pm

    Totally repelled!

  6. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:05 pm

    A space in between please ?

  7. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:05 pm

    A space in between please

  8. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:07 pm

    I understand what it’s like ….

  9. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:08 pm

    Yes not activating out of scarcity or fear!

  10. Lashish Boxell-Jacobs says: August 6, 2019 at 5:09 pm

    This makes complete sense to me. Thank you ?

    • Allison Crow says: August 6, 2019 at 5:27 pm

      Lashish Boxell-Jacobs I’m glad it helped. ?

  11. Lashish Boxell-Jacobs says: August 6, 2019 at 5:09 pm

    This makes complete sense to me. Thank you

    • Allison Crow says: August 6, 2019 at 5:27 pm

      Lashish Boxell-Jacobs I’m glad it helped.

  12. Janet Miller says: August 6, 2019 at 5:22 pm

    I agree. We need to see the pain of those thoughts that we don’t want anyone to know about i consider that your GOLD. This is what creates our beliefs that hold us back. We need to give them air so they can breath into the light.

    • Allison Crow says: August 6, 2019 at 5:26 pm

      Janet Miller beautiful way to put it.

    • Janet Miller says: August 6, 2019 at 5:34 pm

      Allison Crow That is how I help people on the subconscious level and change those thoughts to empowering ones .

  13. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:24 pm

    I ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ this way of “I feel you” marketing. It creates a huge opening for me. Thank you ?

    • Allison Crow says: August 6, 2019 at 5:26 pm

      Leslie Typrin come back to Soulie Land. ?

    • Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:31 pm

      Allison Crow I’ve been thinking about it

  14. Leslie Typrin says: August 6, 2019 at 5:24 pm

    I this way of “I feel you” marketing. It creates a huge opening for me. Thank you

    • Allison Crow says: August 6, 2019 at 5:26 pm

      Leslie Typrin come back to Soulie Land.

  15. Lashish Boxell-Jacobs says: August 6, 2019 at 6:06 pm

    Don’t ever should on yourself

  16. Shannon Peebles says: August 6, 2019 at 6:25 pm

    Pain Point marketing is a total turnoff

  17. Kim Larocque says: August 6, 2019 at 8:06 pm

    Replay ??

  18. Kathleen Anne Mulligan says: August 7, 2019 at 6:25 am

    Excelente❣️

  19. Kathleen Anne Mulligan says: August 7, 2019 at 6:25 am

    Excelente

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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