Live Coaching Session #5 with Ryan: Shaking Loose Insecurity, Discover and Expressing Your Authentic Self In Business.Β
This was a high energy session. Β Ryan is a coach in the UK and is plagued with a few specific mind boogers that lead to insecurity and doubt about his ability to succeed.Β
Let me know what you learn from watching, and how you can apply this session to your own life.Β
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Hi Ryan
Hi Allison
We could all use coaches ?
We could all use coaches
Hi
Hey Allison
We all wear many “hats”.
Do I detect a scouse accent? Hello fellow Brit β?β€
Do I detect a scouse accent? Hello fellow Brit
I’ll put my hand up to that from time to time x
YES!!!
Wow Allison I have never heard that before.. that high achievers feel like frauds. I have always found myself trying feeling like I need to justify WHY people should choose to work with me or trust me.
Yes, one of my coaches Rich Litvin has an article about it and has done lots of research. It is very common amongst high achievers to feel lazy, and like they are frauds.
Allison Crow I am going to have to find and read that. Thank you.
Here it is Tina Shang http://richlitvin.com/high-achievers/
We all are ( hug )
I wonder if part of your insecurities Ryan is the fear to succeed.
Fake it til you make it
So as a coach.. do you feel like you have to be “Perfect” or you won’t have credibility?
Beautiful!
You create that together as a family that does not fall fully on your shoulders and trust me a happy family does not come from planning and success it comes from love, acceptance and communication.
And Ryan you might try that for YOU.
Happens to us ALL
Yes, it is.
There is no finish line you guys lol
Exactly.
Happily married, mom of five here ranging in ages from 8 – 27 and trust me when we have financial struggles my kids don’t say, “Mom, why can’t you make more money we want this and this and this.” They say mom I wish that you weren’t so stressed about money.”
Kids don’t need money and things, they need your love and your time.
This is great Allison. I gotta run
1 Stop!
2 Recognise the belief isn’t true
3 What is the TRUE belief- the inner wise voice?
4 Be specific- yet still in the truth
5 Dig even more deeper- be even more specific
(HUG)
Ryan Branch BE YOU! I was told don’t change YOU, don’t chance your Message. Change your audience. So if you aren’t resonating with your audience don’t change you or the message, look for a new audience. If you find success doing something that isn’t you and your passion that isn’t success at all.
YESSSSSSSSSSS!!!! “I am the other you.” It is LITERALLLY ALL about YOU. Say this again!!!! ????
A new kind of permission eh?
Much needed at that
YESSSSSSSSSSS!!!! “I am the other you.” It is LITERALLLY ALL about YOU. Say this again!!!!
Ryan Branch as you consider your future and family think about what you would tell your child, would you tell him/her to conform and fit into the corporate box so that they can find success or would you tell them Fuck That.. You be you and success will follow!
Byron Katie that shit ????
Byron Katie that shit
Yes get that insight out of the head and into the experience! Into the body’s memory. I love that “if one more person 3 P’s on me” lol! ? ? ?
yes! If we don’t embody the new belief…. it can’t begin to stick.
Yes get that insight out of the head and into the experience! Into the body’s memory. I love that “if one more person 3 P’s on me” lol!
Amen x
And that is exactly what a loving relationship is all about. Its not about the success, If someone doesn’t love you at your worst, they don’t deserve you at your best.
Mr resiliency is my security β?β€
Mr resiliency is my security
My*
amen
Being normal is so overrated ?
Being normal is so overrated
Hello
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Singing and dancing..yay
And each of us have a version of that. Singing and dancing….. or we can stay in the hidey hole of our minds.
I love your video, I always take so much away..thank you.
β?β€ Shine bright Ryan! Be YOU
Much love Vicky, thank you
Shine bright Ryan! Be YOU
Hahahaha
I appreciate the honesty.
Isn’t it refreshing. We don’t need how to do FAKE life…we need to know how to navigate real life!
And telling the truth about how we’ve faked it is a pretty good doorway into the real but not an easy one to own up to. I respect the willingness! I just watched the first half before an appt but looking forward to finishing and seeing where he ends up π
Thanks Ashlie, hide nothing and hold nothing back ?
Thanks Ashlie, hide nothing and hold nothing back
Staying tuned for your challenge Ryan π
Ryan sensitive and strong, lovely person..
Great future..
Thank you Laura
I know the ICF and the BCC (all those darn initial providers) say don’t share your story. But I liked when you shared your little story about responsibility.
I’m a teacher with a side of coaching skills. π
For me what I discovered and learned about myself was the importance of being authentic and how sharing my story “just a bit” is good to. I intend to be my authentic self and share a little story [sometimes] when I coach. Thank you Allison. Now I want to listen to the other ones.
You will enjoy them. So far all different.
This was wonderful. Thank you for sharing Ryan and Allison! And thanks for the replay. π
Holy f***, I can’t get enough of this mirroring in coaching and how every live coaching session you do, Allison, touches at least 5 or 6 pain (or growth π ) points that I have right now. I am still at the beginning of my coaching career and I absolutely love how we attract the clients, coaches & situations that mirror and serve us. Loved the idea that sometimes we really have enough knowledge and information, we just need to practice doing things differently. And I also loved the analogy with how being in a cave can keep you safe, but also kill you at the same time π Thanks Allison and Ryan for this π
You may I use a part of that comment as a testimonial in an email about the series?
Oh sure!
I love this!!!
If it was easy , everybody would be doing it mate, doing well Ryan !! We will have to have that meeting soon !
Very true Alison, it’s just like training a body part, build up memory, teaching yourself
You two have just give me an idea ?
You two have just give me an idea
Ryan Branch. It’s nice to see the real you! Hats off to you for baring all live. Total respect β π
Ryan Branch. It’s nice to see the real you! Hats off to you for baring all live. Total respect π
Faith it til u make it. I hear u Ryan Branch! Every step lol! X