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Off the wagon, on the wagon, Babbling my way back to brilliance.

January 2, 2018

Off the wagon, on the wagon, Babbling my way back to brilliance. A bit about my brain being fried by my addiction to social media and what I’m doing about it to strengthen my attention span.

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  1. Ernie Ernestine Day says: January 2, 2018 at 4:15 pm

    Good Morning and Happy New Year ???โค๏ธ

  2. Ernestine-Ernie Day says: January 2, 2018 at 4:15 pm

    Good Morning and Happy New Year

  3. Nadine Larder says: January 2, 2018 at 4:16 pm

    Hell yes!

  4. Nadine Larder says: January 2, 2018 at 4:17 pm

    Yes to that too! I love FB, but Iโ€™m not sure how good it is for me.

  5. Kay Parker Blond says: January 2, 2018 at 4:17 pm

    Hey there

  6. Leigh Helena Louise says: January 2, 2018 at 4:17 pm

    Yes, FB is a problem. It is designed to produce hits of dopamine — as you say, encouraging shorter and shorter attention spans. We literally become addicted. I am trying to limit this as well.

  7. Angela Paris says: January 2, 2018 at 4:18 pm

    Good morning lovely one!

  8. Jamie Siv Rognstad says: January 2, 2018 at 4:22 pm

    Hi Allison <3 Happy New Year

  9. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:22 pm

    Good morning

  10. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:22 pm

    ?

  11. Jamie Siv Rognstad says: January 2, 2018 at 4:22 pm

    I can’t do one single push up either…lol

  12. Jamie Siv Rognstad says: January 2, 2018 at 4:23 pm

    Counter push ups sound really easy ๐Ÿ˜€ I’ll try that

  13. Leigh Helena Louise says: January 2, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    Don’t know where you’re located, but try meridian flexibility — amazing amazing type of simultaneous stretching and strength training. I recently took a class in NYC at Bendable Body and at the beginning of class, I could barely do 1 pushup. By the end I did 10 easily. It’s a different approach and incredibly effective. I was stunned.

  14. Carolina Nlp Coaching Energy says: January 2, 2018 at 4:25 pm

    I need more quiet time too and go back to more yoga time! Started today by planning when to be on and be off of FB and social media

  15. Carolina Nlp Coaching Energy says: January 2, 2018 at 4:25 pm

    lova ya!!!!!

  16. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 2, 2018 at 4:26 pm

    Iโ€™ve realized the same thing! I thought I was having early onset dementia!!! It just Facebook fog!!!

  17. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:26 pm

    Co-working is great for helping me stay focused

  18. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 2, 2018 at 4:28 pm

    It totally becomes a drug

  19. Carolina Nlp Coaching Energy says: January 2, 2018 at 4:28 pm

    I am starting to use a platform for content – posts scheduling, you can even answer from there…and then less real-time interaction

  20. Carolina Nlp Coaching Energy says: January 2, 2018 at 4:29 pm

    YES FUCKING MULTITASKING is death

  21. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 2, 2018 at 4:29 pm

    I think itโ€™s because we donโ€™t have the same real life personal connection.

  22. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:29 pm

    Co-Working really helps me stay focused.

  23. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 2, 2018 at 4:30 pm

    Whatโ€™s co working Tracey?

  24. Allison Field says: January 2, 2018 at 4:31 pm

    Thanks for sharing! I’m also working on setting specific times to write, podcasts, etc. and be fully present while doing those things. Social media is definitely a drug and we’re all getting addicted to some degree!

  25. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:31 pm

    Joelle – when people who work for themselves meet at a coffee shop or someplace to work on their own stuff head to head.

  26. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:31 pm

    Something about someone watching me work keeps me from screwing around so much.

  27. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:32 pm

    Accountability partners works for me too

  28. Leigh Helena Louise says: January 2, 2018 at 4:34 pm

    I very much miss working with kids and the daily interaction with my colleagues. As a single woman who lives alone, and has no family, FB is incredibly challenging because it’s an easy way to “connect”.

  29. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 2, 2018 at 4:35 pm

    Nice Tracey! Sounds very productive!!

  30. Jamie Siv Rognstad says: January 2, 2018 at 4:37 pm

    I am doing both online and in person in my business again. It feels a lot better. In person can mean on zoom, Skype, even on a Facebook live when someone actually comments and connects with me. I use my sketch book a lot though. And it’s incredibly important to me to sit down and have time to THINK.

  31. Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 2, 2018 at 4:37 pm

    Haha! Make FB your Bitch Gurl!!!

  32. Tracey Wilson McNeely says: January 2, 2018 at 4:37 pm

    Creating quite device free time, reading and journaling!!! Yes writing!! YES!! Facebook lets me see people and say things when I decide. Take back your time and life gurl!!

  33. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:38 pm

    I like to say “I am powerfully choosing to_______”

  34. Tracey Lee Wallace says: January 2, 2018 at 4:42 pm

    love you girl

  35. Jamie Siv Rognstad says: January 2, 2018 at 4:43 pm

    Thanks, Allison. Love connecting with you <3 have a great day

  36. Cristina Palma says: January 2, 2018 at 4:46 pm

    Watching replay ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Joelle Collins Bohart says: January 2, 2018 at 4:47 pm

      Itโ€™s so good Christina

  37. Theresa Marie Falvey says: January 2, 2018 at 4:51 pm

    Replay Viewer!! Everything you are saying is so in sync with everything I have been feeling! I actually checked out of Facebook this past weekend intentionally and will keep doing it. PS: You’re hair and everything looks really great today!

  38. Darlene Versak says: January 2, 2018 at 5:15 pm

    Love it, I am making Facebook my bitch!

  39. Cristina Palma says: January 2, 2018 at 5:18 pm

    โ€œConnect, collaborate, creating, contribute โ€œ ??

  40. Cristina Palma says: January 2, 2018 at 5:18 pm

    โ€œConnect, collaborate, creating, contribute โ€œ

  41. Michelle Jeanette says: January 2, 2018 at 5:44 pm

    Uhhh yes all the time

  42. Michelle Jeanette says: January 2, 2018 at 5:46 pm

    Great topic… talk about perfect timing… because I’ve been thinking myself out of everything today because I don’t want to build a business that has me spending even more time online… I want nature, movement (and connection) away from the desk, computers, Facebook

    • Paula Roelands says: January 3, 2018 at 1:51 am

      Iโ€™m totally there too- I donโ€™t want to be a slave to my business. At the same time I DO want to have a lucrative meaningful business/work

  43. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:19 am

    Yes I just thought of this today too. I am going back to spending time reading and listening and taking notes. Then organizing into useful form. So it sinks in. Following all the way through the cycle!

  44. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:20 am

    And not adding anything else in right now. I have so much content to learn and digest. I am taking a 30day break from buying anything other than complete necessity.

  45. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:31 am

    Yes I like this. Create for ourselves first. ?

  46. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:31 am

    Yes I like this. Create for ourselves first.

  47. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:33 am

    Figuring out how to use FB so it works for us …. rather than letting FB use us so we become a โ€œtoolโ€ ?

  48. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:33 am

    Figuring out how to use FB so it works for us …. rather than letting FB use us so we become a โ€œtoolโ€

  49. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:39 am

    Yes I realized I have been not fully digesting, assimilating and then utilizing information and my creative inspirations. I have been cutting off the cycle and storing too much. If that makes sense ?

  50. Leslie Typrin says: January 3, 2018 at 3:39 am

    Yes I realized I have been not fully digesting, assimilating and then utilizing information and my creative inspirations. I have been cutting off the cycle and storing too much. If that makes sense

  51. Helen May says: January 3, 2018 at 3:40 am

    Replay viewer!โ™กโ™ก

  52. Helen May says: January 3, 2018 at 3:48 am

    Love this!! Totally agree!

  53. Helen May says: January 3, 2018 at 3:49 am

    Study time – good idea

  54. Helen May says: January 3, 2018 at 3:50 am

    I couldn’t do many of those!

  55. Helen May says: January 3, 2018 at 4:12 am

    Thank you Allison!??

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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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