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Breath is your BFF, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Love, Meditation, Personal, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Unarmored

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish.

March 28, 2023

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Here’s my example this morning:   I start to journal… “what if XYZ was possible… “ and then I get smacked in the head with, “but love what is.”   Well, which is it? Love what is… [read more]

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Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Renewal, Self Compassion, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Get Out of The House and Magic Happens – A road riff episode

March 19, 2023

Hey, this is Allison and this is a two part episode. The first part I recorded as a road riff, and it’s about the magic of getting out of the house. Then stay tuned for what the Magic Act really was. I wanna tell you… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Achievement and Success, ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, Conversations, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

You Think Too Much

March 14, 2023

No shit. I am 1000000% aware of this. And I’m done being ashamed of my overthinking parts. Before I get to making my list of the things I adore and love about β€œthinking too much,” – let me tell anyone who considers saying this to… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Client Stories, Coaching, Conversations, Emotions, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Compassion, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Beautiful & Miserable: Life is not The Container Store

March 12, 2023

Ah, the imperfection of the human experience. You are not doing it wrong if it feels hard, or bad, or disconnected.  You are not screwing up your kids, you didn’t marry the wrong person, and your business is not destined for failure. I see so… [read more]

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What might makeit hurt a little less? Life is not the Container Store. Podcast episode 194 The WILD Edge of Being Human

March 12, 2023

What might makeit hurt a little less? Life is not the Container Store. Podcast episode 194 The WILD Edge of Being Human Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Authentic Leadership, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Renewal, Self Compassion, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

How to Recover after a Difficult Season

March 5, 2023

This is the wild edge of being human, a podcast for business owners. I wanna talk about recovering from difficult seasons and transitioning out of a difficult season, and wouldn’t it be nice if just one day the hard stopped and the ease started again?… [read more]

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Ep 193: How to Recover from Difficult Seasons

March 3, 2023

Ep 193: How to Recover from Difficult Seasons Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Service Based Business Owners on Social Media -Remember This.

February 27, 2023

I get it…social media CAN be good for marketing….AND remember this especially as the markets shift. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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πŸ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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πŸ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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