“When I realized my pain came from wanting to be liked, I began to love myself. When I realised my pain came from wanting to be acknowledged, I started to see who I really was…” This poem by Tanya Markul is a beautiful expression… [read more]
On the Front Porch with Protective Parts
As a trained #internalfamilysystems coach (vs. a therapist) who works with very smart, head-led, and strategic business owners – we do a ton of what I call Front porch work. My specific amazing clients have protectors & internal that use fierce but publicly… [read more]
Fierce Personal Protector Parts – Internal Family Systems
Imagine a very quiet secret service protector. She is quiet but consistently over my right shoulder. Her presence is thick and always there. But she isn’t on guard for outside threats; she is monitoring my behavior, my productivity, my processes, and my very existence. Most… [read more]
You Think Too Much
No shit. I am 1000000% aware of this. And Iām done being ashamed of my overthinking parts. Before I get to making my list of the things I adore and love about āthinking too much,ā – let me tell anyone who considers saying this to… [read more]
How To Handle Your Inner Critic
Your Inner Critic, Inner Judger, and Shoulding parts need your love and affection – not banishment or elimination. I’ve found it easier to give my affectionate presence to my anxious and depressed parts. Perhaps it is because I have been aware of them for… [read more]
Struggling with the Social Media Marketing Machine
An insight about my creative process that may point you to insights about your own creative process: When I openly acknowledge the hard and I can compassionately witness myself and even the tiniest of suffering, the hard often lifts within a few days. It… [read more]
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