Allison Crow

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Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Conversations, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Trust

SELF-Trust & Invisible Systems

July 3, 2022

Here comes another car episode! Last week was intense. Last week was the week that the Supreme Court of the United States really overreached and not just one decision, Roe V Wade, but in many decisions.  It just shows me how much we trust “the… [read more]

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SOPs for Wonky Times: Standard Operating Procedures to Hold Your Being

May 15, 2022

Hey, this is Alison Crow, welcome to the Better Life Better Work Show. This is episode number 171. It’s been a while since I’ve recorded an official podcast. I’ve done some driving in the car updates and honestly I feel wobbly and out of practice… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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Updates & Ideas I’ve been Pondering During Difficult Times

April 24, 2022

Hey, it’s going to be another on the road podcast with Alison Crow, your favorite life and business coach, your favorite Self Leadership coach. I know that I’ve been a little AWOL and here’s what we’re going to do today. I’m going to give you… [read more]

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Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Transformation

Short Course on Compassionate Inquiry – Highly Recommend

March 20, 2022

This is a course I am taking on- Compassionate Inquiry with Gabor Mate’, and the value far supersedes the cost (280usd) – Highly recommend it for anyone who ponders deeper things and healing. For anyone working with others – for anyone seeking self or other… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success

Building Capacity for Deeper Work – Self Leadership

March 17, 2022

For years I have been good at connecting with YOU, while still protecting and disconnecting from me. (This strategy is ineffective). My nervous system was conditioned to assess threat- yours is too… and because I didn’t know internal connection and safety – I tried to… [read more]

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Come Home To All of You

March 13, 2022

Welcome to another riding in the car at the episode with Allison.  So it is, this is episode number 167 Everybody is struggling with something you don’t know about.  There’s a lot of stuff going on so I just want to acknowledge your humanness with… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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Insight Tapas: Snacks for Brilliant Minds

January 30, 2022

This episode is going to be a little different. I have a bunch of little snack size insights for you all.  When I’m on coaching calls, I have a stack of note cards and I write these little insights and ideas that I have and… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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You’re the Decider: Internal Safety & Self Leadership

January 16, 2022

Oh, I got something for you today.  I want to talk about Internal safety and Self Leadership. I’m working with my clients right now on some inner work that’s disguised as a visibility challenge. This is a compassionate challenge that’s meant to bring up your… [read more]

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πŸ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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