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Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership

An Important IFS TIP: A Partswork Distinction

June 5, 2022

  I have a quick episode for you today. I want to share an important IFS tip, especially for those who have kind of doing their own lay work and you haven’t had official training.  This is one of the best, most important things that… [read more]

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Why I Shifted Full On To Internal Family Systems Coaching

May 29, 2022

Ep 173 of the Better Life Better Work Show and today’s podcast topic is about why I made the shift full-on into IFS coaching. Yes, IFS is used in therapeutic settings.  It originated years ago in the clinical realm and has since spread to education,… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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What gives me HOPE When the World is Going to Shit

May 22, 2022

Today this little episode is about what gives me hope when the world is shit and it doesn’t come from a place of airy fairy, it comes from a place of sitting with despair.  Yesterday was a day where physically and emotionally and in the… [read more]

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SOPs for Wonky Times: Standard Operating Procedures to Hold Your Being

May 15, 2022

Hey, this is Alison Crow, welcome to the Better Life Better Work Show. This is episode number 171. It’s been a while since I’ve recorded an official podcast. I’ve done some driving in the car updates and honestly I feel wobbly and out of practice… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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Updates & Ideas I’ve been Pondering During Difficult Times

April 24, 2022

Hey, it’s going to be another on the road podcast with Alison Crow, your favorite life and business coach, your favorite Self Leadership coach. I know that I’ve been a little AWOL and here’s what we’re going to do today. I’m going to give you… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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How To Heal Disconnection & Rejection In a World full of Overwhelm and Problems

March 27, 2022

Last night I went to bed, um, feeling the weight of the world, feeling the experience of caring too much and not being able to help enough.  I’ve talked to a couple of clients this week that have also felt the weight of responsibility and… [read more]

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My One Thing: Nourishing Practices

March 20, 2022

I feel something strange and what I feel that is strange is because of my one thing, a slight perspective shift, nurturing practices. Some may call them habits but habits feel a little too harsh for me. You can’t really change your thinking and it’s… [read more]

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Building Capacity for Deeper Work – Self Leadership

March 17, 2022

For years I have been good at connecting with YOU, while still protecting and disconnecting from me. (This strategy is ineffective). My nervous system was conditioned to assess threat- yours is tooโ€ฆ and because I didnโ€™t know internal connection and safety – I tried to… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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