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Alignment, Everyday Magic, FB Live, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Inner Whisper, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Soul-Full Living, Transformation, Uncategorized

Sacred Rebel Mojo – the energy has shifted!

January 31, 2017

Sacred Rebel Mojo – the energy has shifted! Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Coaching, Conversations, FB Live, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Love Series, Uncategorized

Coffee & Conversation – How to Deal With The Past

December 11, 2016

Coffee & Conversation – How to deal with the past and other ramblings Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Artwork by Allison - a colorful upperworld and dark and scary underworld
Art, Depression, Emotions, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Transformation, Uncategorized

Can I Be Thankful for Losing My Shit and Coming Undone

November 24, 2016

Is it possible to be thankful for coming undone? For the unraveling and losing my shit over and over in the past year?   I’m a leader. A small, but a still public figure. My life’s work is supported by being online, outspoken, and having… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Transformation, Uncategorized

Your Life is A Pile of Dirt

October 14, 2016

YOUR LIFE IS A PILE OF DIRT:   Yes…. and believe it or not, this dirt is something. It is in progress. This lot has changed EVERY DAY for the last 2-3 months. It started out a broken down empty house….and then was raised….and then… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Depression, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Uncategorized

Depression – How I Stay Successful When I’m Depressed.

September 26, 2016

  I’ve struggled with clinical depression my entire adult life.  Yep, I’m one of the genuinely happiest and joyful people who happens to wrestle with the deep shadow of depression. I was officially diagnosed at 24 and I’ve been working with doctors and managing it… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Breath is your BFF, Managing Energy, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Uncategorized

What to Do When You Want to Quit

August 22, 2016

Ok. โ€ช#โ€ŽRealLifePostโ€ฌ. There are lots of days when I think I want to quit. I’ve been working since I was 15 and self employed since 2003. I’m a recovering overachiever and last fall I was diagnosed w/ hypothyroidism and adrenal fatigue. Maybe that was part… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Prosperity, Releasing Resistance, Small Biz Support, Soul-Work, Uncategorized, Video

Does Business Really Have to Be So Hard?

July 6, 2016

back again….Does Business Have to Be So Hard Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Energetic Work, Everyday Magic, FB Live, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Love, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Uncategorized, Video

Look Wider Than It Hurts…

June 16, 2016

Wise words for a day and time like this: Mark Nepo Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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