Allison Crow

Humaning

  • WELCOME
  • Coaching
    • ReBloom Community
  • Book
  • Podcast
    • In the media
  • Values Exercise
  • Blog
  • IFS Coaching
  • About
    • Contact AC
    • Privacy Policy
Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Personal, Releasing Resistance

Both/And

October 10, 2017

both/and   This is the world we live in. This is the world I create. One where BOTH/AND exist.   The news is BOTH tragic & devastating – a friend dies, a beloved ranch burned to the ground, and a young boy takes his own… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Better Life Better Work Show, Energetic Work, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Podcast, Releasing Resistance, Renewal

Ep#20 – Breathe Baby

August 23, 2017

  The best advice I can give you in any situation – and especially when you are feeling off, your mind is racing and shaming.  The simple act of a breath connects your head and body to your spirit.     Love, Allison     … [read more]

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Android | Blubrry | Email | RSS | More

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, FB Live, Mindset and Thinking, Online Business, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Soul-Work

Are you Stopping or Shipping?

August 14, 2017

A quickie from your favorite life coach: are you stopping or shipping? Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Energetic Work, Life Coaching, Releasing Resistance, Soul-Full Living

3 Things You Can Do Today to Live & Feel Better

August 9, 2017

Hello Magic Friends –  Yes, you are magic and I am here to remind you how fucking delicious and brilliant you are.  I’m a bit on fire today – and the last few weeks.  Ever since my own amazing breakdown –I remembered who I was! Who… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Podcast, Releasing Resistance

BLBW Minisode Update July 2017

July 24, 2017

Hello Magical Friends – Mid move and the glorious whirlwind that is my personal reinvention, I wanted to drop a little update and some of the miracles and lessons learned.  Yes, the continuing story of the last few months is finally on the way up…. [read more]

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Android | Blubrry | Email | RSS | More

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Better Life Better Work Show, Conversations, FB Live, Podcast, Releasing Resistance

BLBW Ep 19: The Playful Professional and Shooting the Sh*t with Jason Goldberg

July 14, 2017

This is for all you super serious small business owners.  Lighten up.  Ok, so it is a message for me too.  Sometimes we are so dang serious.  And frankly, life and work can get thick – and letting ourselves laugh a little can lighten things… [read more]

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Android | Blubrry | Email | RSS | More

by allisoncrow 
Personal, Podcast, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Small Biz Support

BLBW Ep #18: Cracking Up – The Follow Up to the Meltdown

June 27, 2017

This is what I call my crazy-lady crack up episode.  And before you judge the insanity – know that every time I break apart – or life breaks apart – it actually gets rebuilt better.   If I’d only known what I know now when this was… [read more]

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Android | Blubrry | Email | RSS | More

by allisoncrow 
Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Better Life Better Work Show, Personal, Podcast, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance

BLBW Ep #17-a – Diary of a Recovering Overachiever

June 19, 2017

Oh, the lure of the hustle.  The pressure we put on ourselves to measure up, to achieve, to make it happen.  When this falls out of alignment with our soul’s purpose, there can be a crash of the ego and a shakedown of discomfort.  Discomfort… [read more]

Podcast: Play in new window | Download

Subscribe Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Android | Blubrry | Email | RSS | More

by allisoncrow 
  • « Previous Page
  • 1
  • …
  • 7
  • 8
  • 9
  • 10
  • 11
  • …
  • 13
  • Next Page »
  • Home
  • Privacy Policy

Coaching

Podcast

IFS Coaching

allison_crow

💛IFS coaching for life/biz
🌸ReBLOOM Midlife Group
📙Unarmored
✨AUDHD
💛 Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
Instagram post 18053763071158914 Instagram post 18053763071158914
Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
Instagram post 18052656569149431 Instagram post 18052656569149431
For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
Follow on Instagram

Copyright © 2025 · Prima Donna theme by Georgia Lou Studios

Copyright © 2025 · Prima Donna on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in