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Taking Space

April 15, 2021

Allison Crow Spring 2021

You may have noticed a slight change in my online content lately. I’ve taken a month off to allow for space and listening.
No podcast.
No marketing plan.
No emails to my address book.
Just space (and servicing current clients).
 
I’ve been doing some really deep and healing work about the shit in the online and business world that still gets under my skin. I know ALL industries have their shit…. and coaching is my industry! I wanna create truly helpful work.
 
This deep work + space is so healing. Space allows me to ??? the systems of manipulation, fear, and magic pill bull shit.
Now more than ever, I am a stand for slow,
for deep,
for space which creates room for compassionately managing emotions.
 
Then we can move forward in centered and aligned action.
 
I have a few clients I’m leading in slow deep inner work – as business owners.
And we are all experiencing similar results- healing, more serenity, calm confidence, and sustainable profit… even increased income.
 
We have ALL been conditioned so deeply to buy and sell from fear vs self-trust.
I tell my clients often, I’m here to make my offerings irrelevant to you…. because you trust yourself more than even me.
 
This has been my own personal journey, too.
I am here to facilitate your journey of deep inner work and self-leadership so that you can be aligned in your work and life. You actually DO know what and how to do the things… if you can just sort out and hear your Sacred and centered self.
 
No more buying or selling magic pills. No more gaslighting over the mindset and coaching platitudes. No fear or scarcity enrolling. No overcoming objections. Just aligned readiness and knowing.
 
The more I know me, ALL parts of me, the more self-trust is built. I want that for you, too.
This post is a reminder that self-trust is an available journey and option for you. It just isn’t flashy and fast. It’s nuanced and slow and like any relationship develops over time. It is available to you…..
 
? Allison, your favorite life coach.

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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