Allison Crow

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Achievement and Success, FB Live, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Personal

Verguenza, Verguenza, Verguenza – the shame of calling myself a LIFE COACH and why I ain’t scarrred.

February 8, 2018

Verguenza, Verguenza, Verguenza – the shame of calling myself a LIFE COACH and why I ain’t scarrred. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, FB Live, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Personal Growth, Remember, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

Insights from ONE day of coaching – more value than 10 days of information.

January 23, 2018

Insights from ONE day of coaching – more value than 10 days of information. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Behind the Curtain, Better Life Better Work Show, Online Business, Ordinary Courage, Podcast, Small Biz Support, Soul-Work, Spiritual Business

Ep 28: Cheers to All Who Are Self-Employed

January 19, 2018

This one is for you, my self-employed friends and colleagues.  For anyone who has taken the risk to work for themselves, to get out there and do the inner and outer work to create life and work on your own terms, to share your service… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, FB Live, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

I know why you aren’t doing that thing you really want to do. It all boils down to this ONE thing….

January 17, 2018

I know why you aren’t doing that thing you really want to do. It all boils down to this ONE thing…. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, FB Live, Money, Releasing Resistance, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

You canโ€™t make money with a stick up your a$$ and other truths.

January 11, 2018

You canโ€™t make money with a stick up your a$$ and other truths about being clenched.  Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Mindset and Thinking, Podcast, Purpose, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Soul-Work

Ep 27: OMFG Why Do We Keep Stopping

January 9, 2018

OMFG: Yes, I’m cussing out of frustration at myself! Do you keep stopping yourself from achieving your dreams and desires?  So many of us do.  I just got a cold hard reality check about how I stop my self, and more importantly WHY I stop myself,… [read more]

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Who do you have to be: And Something my coach shared with me that I have to pass on.

January 4, 2018

Who do you have to be: And something my coach shared with me that I have to pass on. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Online Business, Releasing Resistance, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Soul-Work, Spiritual Business

Cheers to All My Self Employed Friends

December 29, 2017

Cheers- to all my self-employed friends and colleagues and those transitioning to self-employment. Today is the last business day of 2017. I celebrate you. I celebrate your mind and your heart and your actions. I celebrate you sharing your heart and showing your work… especially… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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