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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Breath is your BFF, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Success

Taking Space

April 15, 2021

You may have noticed a slight change in my online content lately. Iโ€™ve taken a month off to allow for space and listening. No podcast. No marketing plan. No emails to my address book. Just space (and servicing current clients).   Iโ€™ve been doing some… [read more]

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Allison Crow Smiling at 49 in her office
Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Remember, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success, Too Much Woman

This is 49, a Reflection of 17 years in Business for Myself

March 8, 2021

One of the benefits of age is being able to connect the dots looking back.   This post is part journal to show up in my memories, year after year FOR ME…and part public for you – as a gift -that you might see we… [read more]

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Alignment, Better Life Better Work Show, Mindset and Thinking, Podcast, Recovering Overachiever

BLBW 38: Lessons from Losing My Mind: I AM Not MY Work

March 5, 2019

  When I get greedy and controlly, my business is not my own… These are my lessons learned from being loopy. I am not my business. I am not my work. I am DOING all the things I need to do and it is what… [read more]

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Ep 29: Better Life Better Work Insights w/ Varian Brandon

July 15, 2018

The Better Life Better Work show is back after a hiatus.  We jump in with my guest Varian Brandon – an expert in being unoffendable and in personal power. In this episode, recorded live on FB, we discuss the ideas Varian holds on the top… [read more]

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Confessions of a Recovering Overachiever: The Things I Forget Over and Over

July 9, 2018

Confessions of A Recovering Over Achiever – The things I seem to forget over and over. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Better Life Better Work Show, Online Business, Podcast, Recovering Overachiever, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

BLBW Ep 22: 6 Elements to a Soul-Full Business Plan

October 4, 2017

  Alright Solopreneur, do you have a business plan?  October is traditionally business planning season. So many small business owners I know have a vision and have some services or products that they are putting out into the world hoping their business will prosper.  Often,… [read more]

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Are you Stopping or Shipping?

August 14, 2017

A quickie from your favorite life coach: are you stopping or shipping? Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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BLBW Ep #18: Cracking Up – The Follow Up to the Meltdown

June 27, 2017

This is what I call my crazy-lady crack up episode. ย And before youย judge the insanity – know that every timeย I break apart – or life breaks apart – it actually gets rebuilt better. ย  If I’d only known what I know now when this was… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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