Allison Crow

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Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Coaching, FB Live, Mindset and Thinking, Money

Beliefs that aren’t useful: Friends get my services for free.

February 25, 2020

Beliefs that aren’t useful: Friends get my services for free. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, FB Live

Identity – or the goal?

February 24, 2020

Identity – or the goal? Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success

No to Cheap

February 24, 2020

I have a colleague who is putting out an offer. Her initial pricing was CHEAP and I called her and said NO. No to cheap. Itโ€™s ok for it to be hard. Stop needing it to be easy. Hard is good for your brain and… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Podcast

STOP the Habit of Looking at the Past for Evidence of Future Possibility

February 23, 2020

  Stop looking back.  Stop framing your future based on your past.  Iโ€™m guilty, SO guilty actually, of doing this too. But we have to actively change this pattern in order to truly move forward.  Iโ€™m sharing this now because itโ€™s one of the two… [read more]

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Check in, love, what’s been going on and what is on the horizon.

February 19, 2020

Check in, love, what’s been going on and what is on the horizon. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Biz Secrets, FB Live

VIDEO: STOP the Habit of Looking at the Past For Evidence of Future Possibility

February 18, 2020

Live Recording of Episode 86 of the Better Life Better Work Show ~ STOP the Habit of Looking at the Past For Evidence of Future Possibility Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Podcast

The Edgiest Thing I’ve Done for Long Term Success in my Heart and Life

February 16, 2020

I want to let you in on the edgiest thing Iโ€™ve ever done for my long term success, both in my heart and lifeโ€ฆ This is something Iโ€™m still working on day by day.  Itโ€™s not something most of us want to do, use, or… [read more]

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Beth Liebling: A Soulie Feature on Sexy Love

February 9, 2020

  Yโ€™all are in for a real treat on the podcast this week! Iโ€™m joined by Beth Liebling, a totally loving and saucy Soulie. Beth teaches intimacy, focuses on love, sex, and relationships, and does it in an exciting, light-hearted way that sheโ€™s sharing with… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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