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Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Sacred Journeys, Self Leadership, The Body Always Knows

I Believe You.

October 13, 2022

Today is a new day. Yesterday was low, low, low….. grateful for my compassionate friend Heather and compassionate nurse Bethany. I spent half the day at the Heart Hospital having some tests (planned, not an emergency).   Here’s what I noticed about being in the… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Compassionate Inquiry, Internal Family Systems, Self Leadership

One way anxiety shows up in my mind

April 13, 2022

Remembering who I BE in the world has always been tricky for me. Perhaps it’s because my feelers and seeing are always out 362 degrees – it’s a holdover from childhood that makes me brilliant, intuitive, and exhausted. I pick up others and only recently… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Breath is your BFF, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, Self Leadership

Connect with your SELF

March 13, 2022

Self Connection: Take a moment to pause and connect in your body, your heart….your breath, and listen for YOUR truth. We are taught to demonize and pathologize any “resistance, “block,” or difficult emotion – these are NOT problems to solve..they are opportunities for SELF-connection.  … [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Anxiety, Coaching, Energetic Work, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Self Leadership

Itch or Flow

February 16, 2022

Here’s a distinction I’d like to present for your Soulfull consideration: Is your desire from discomfort or innate drive? The itch is dehydrated, thirsty, and scratchy. Flow is supple, emergent on its own, and overflowing. Is your expression from performance and thirst or is it… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Anxiety, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth

Deep Inner-Work – Both/AND

October 21, 2021

If you are doing deep inner work, transformational work- I see you and honor you and GET that it’s a scribbly-rollercoaster ride of ups-down-all-around. I get that it can be heavy being with some of these parts. Today I want to remind you that both… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Conversations, FB Live, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Releasing Resistance, Renewal

Strong leaders- independent overfunctioners, this is for you:

September 2, 2021

Strong leaders- independent overfunctioners, this is for you: Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Emotions, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Podcast, Purpose, Self Leadership

Self-Leadership & Wholehearted Living

August 1, 2021

At the beginning of the year I hired a coach to work on self leadership and self trust and a whole new deepening of who I be is being cultivated.  I love a good reset! Like when my Amazon fire stick stops working I just… [read more]

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Being Smart, and where traditional coaching failed, and what helped.

July 16, 2021

For 49 years I’ve been too smart for my own good. I’m a lifelong student and always will be. My intellectual prowess has always given me a sense of safety and security. For most of my life, this was unconscious and now I see. I… [read more]

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πŸ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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πŸ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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