“When I realized my pain came from wanting to be liked, I began to love myself. When I realised my pain came from wanting to be acknowledged, I started to see who I really was…” This poem by Tanya Markul is a beautiful expression… [read more]
On the Front Porch with Protective Parts
As a trained #internalfamilysystems coach (vs. a therapist) who works with very smart, head-led, and strategic business owners – we do a ton of what I call Front porch work. My specific amazing clients have protectors & internal that use fierce but publicly… [read more]
Fierce Personal Protector Parts – Internal Family Systems
Imagine a very quiet secret service protector. She is quiet but consistently over my right shoulder. Her presence is thick and always there. But she isn’t on guard for outside threats; she is monitoring my behavior, my productivity, my processes, and my very existence. Most… [read more]
Allowing the Space for Heart Coherence
Tone: deep contentment, mostly. There’s an extra space this morning. After the Soulies closing ceremony (my primary coaching work container over the last 7 years), and after deleting almost ALL of my old fb groups (one for every group program I’ve done… [read more]
Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish.
Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Here’s my example this morning: I start to journal… “what if XYZ was possible… “ and then I get smacked in the head with, “but love what is.” Well, which is it? Love what is… [read more]
Get Out of The House and Magic Happens – A road riff episode
Hey, this is Allison and this is a two part episode. The first part I recorded as a road riff, and it’s about the magic of getting out of the house. Then stay tuned for what the Magic Act really was. I wanna tell you… [read more]
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How to Recover after a Difficult Season
This is the wild edge of being human, a podcast for business owners. I wanna talk about recovering from difficult seasons and transitioning out of a difficult season, and wouldn’t it be nice if just one day the hard stopped and the ease started again?… [read more]
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How To Handle Your Inner Critic
Your Inner Critic, Inner Judger, and Shoulding parts need your love and affection – not banishment or elimination. I’ve found it easier to give my affectionate presence to my anxious and depressed parts. Perhaps it is because I have been aware of them for… [read more]
