Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Here’s my example this morning: I start to journal… “what if XYZ was possible… “ and then I get smacked in the head with, “but love what is.” Well, which is it? Love what is… [read more]
Trust Your Practices and Process over the Man Made Dates
I can trust practices and processes. When I try to shove them into a calendar or deadline – the processes and practices get detoured by “I’m doing it wrong.” I have nurturing practices -that I KNOW bring me to clarity, confidence, and action. I have… [read more]
New Years Goals? Not Yet
New Year Goals? A Business Plan? Not Yet. The magic space that is my office… here at this desk and in these journals, and even at this computer where I get to connect with my clients and friends. I still haven’t really… [read more]
Recovering Overachiever Complete
Yes, it’s the time of year when I think about what I desire for the year ahead. And the slowness and space help me FEEL and notice my cravings (the deeper under the “don’t feel” cravings)…. and my feelings actually give me so much information…. [read more]
How did I do it? Secrets to Making Your Dreams Happen.
How Did I Do It? Don’t let the photo fool you: This was a big year for me. 3 MAJOR milestones accomplished. In May, my pool was built- If you know me, this was my dream – not a family dream – so… [read more]
Let go to be in the moment
Tone: peaceful Bianca Forte is the choice today. Carmel Cookie is my go-to. For the last few months, I’ve been waking up with slightly anxious parts going through all the things pressing on me. Anxiety in the early morning is new for me…. [read more]
Pick Your Creative Practice Back Up
For some reason, I had a block in my head that made me believe my “intuitive painting” and “expressive arts” were only done with acrylic or tempura paints. I don’t know what fucking planet I was on, but – this glorious practice can be… [read more]
Life Hard? You’ve done nothing wrong.
I’m sooo done with the hard. It has been a year of gut punches, grief, and stress. Part of me feels the fresh of fall and a spark of vitality… so ready to be done with the hard. But the hard is not done with… [read more]