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Behind the Curtain, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, Emotions, HEART, Life, Personal, Self Compassion, Wild Edges of Being Human

Life Hard? You’ve done nothing wrong.

October 11, 2022

I’m sooo done with the hard. It has been a year of gut punches, grief, and stress. Part of me feels the fresh of fall and a spark of vitality… so ready to be done with the hard. But the hard is not done with… [read more]

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Anxiety, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth

Deep Inner-Work – Both/AND

October 21, 2021

If you are doing deep inner work, transformational work- I see you and honor you and GET that it’s a scribbly-rollercoaster ride of ups-down-all-around. I get that it can be heavy being with some of these parts. Today I want to remind you that both… [read more]

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Emotions, HEART, Leadership, Mindset and Thinking, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Success, The Body Always Knows

Which Part Leads? Head, Heart, or Body?

October 19, 2021

Which part of you is your subconscious instinctual leader? I’ve always “thought” of myself as heart-led…. BUT oh, No I instinctively lead with my head and thoughts. And under stress, I can instinctively disconnect from my heart and body. #Gottalovethosetraumaresponses   My enneagram is type… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, HEART, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Love, Managing Energy, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Transformation

Qualities of SELF – Internal Family Systems

July 13, 2021

When I began studying SELF-Leadership and SELF-Trust even more intently, I had no idea what #internalfamilysystems was. And yet… right there…. SELF. This work has brought me to, and can bring you to, a deeper meeting of your SELF and all your parts…. Parts are all these… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Emotions, HEART, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support

Limiting Belief? No Shit. Now What

July 13, 2021

How many times have you hit this wall? And how many times have you been told “Change your thinking,” or “trade up your thoughts”, or “have a more powerful mindset.” Honestly – “Change your Thinking, Change Your Life” was in-road to my whole career as… [read more]

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Behind the Curtain, Emotions, HEART, Ordinary Courage, Personal

On Grief

June 19, 2021

  Yesterday was heavy. And full of grief. Grief is the one I really want to avoid…. I found myself edging around the deep pit. You, know, the painful sharp black hole of grief- when it hits the center of your heart and swallows it… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, HEART, Personal Growth, Self Leadership

Innerwork as a Business Owner

March 29, 2021

49…. and 7. There are so many moments on my heart and mind lately. They pop in and out of my awareness and I see all the little seasons of life lived in my 49 years. Self-discovery is the greatest adventure I’ve ever been on…. [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, HEART, Leadership, Managing Energy, Money, Online Business, Personal Growth, Podcast, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

Be an Aligned DOER in Your Business

January 3, 2021

Are you ready to take aligned action (aka be a DOER) in your business?  If you are as ambitious as I think you are, I bet the answer is yes.  Sometimes we get stuck in the “BE” part of ourselves, dreaming of our desires and… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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