Allison Crow

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Alignment, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Remember, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human, Writing Life

Tanya Markul Poem That Says So Much

July 14, 2023

  โ€œWhen I realized my pain came from wanting to be liked, I began to love myself. When I realised my pain came from wanting to be acknowledged, I started to see who I really wasโ€ฆโ€ This poem by Tanya Markul is a beautiful expressionโ€ฆ [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Conversations, HEART, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, journal, Life, Life Coaching, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Practice, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, The Body Always Knows, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

The Practice of Connection over Control

July 10, 2023

โ€Š Episode 203 โ€“ The Practice of Connection over Control   Another road riff episode! Itโ€™s Sunday morning, 8:23 am as I record this and Iโ€™m heading out to my therapeutic horseback riding lessons. After a difficult week, Iโ€™ve got some insights and lessons settlingโ€ฆ [read more]

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Alignment, Compassionate Inquiry, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership

On the Front Porch with Protective Parts

June 20, 2023

As a trained #internalfamilysystems coach (vs. a therapist) who works with very smart,  head-led, and strategic business owners โ€“ we do a ton of what I call   Front porch work.   My specific amazing clients have protectors & internal that use fierce but publiclyโ€ฆ [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Compassionate Inquiry, Deconstructing Systems, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, journal, Life Coaching, Personal, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

Fierce Personal Protector Parts โ€“ Internal Family Systems

June 13, 2023

Imagine a very quiet secret service protector. She is quiet but consistently over my right shoulder. Her presence is thick and always there. But she isnโ€™t on guard for outside threats; she is monitoring my behavior, my productivity, my processes, and my very existence. Mostโ€ฆ [read more]

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Achievement and Success, ADHD Women, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life, Podcast, Self Leadership

Ep: 198 โ€“ Updates

May 21, 2023

  Hello Humans!  Who else has been wild edging through transitions and wobbles!  I made you a check in episode โ€“ to let you know a bit of the behind the scenes as we sort our shit out with laughter and compassion! Lots of littleโ€ฆ [read more]

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Roy Fucking Kent and Oscar the Grouch โ€“ My Muses

April 13, 2023

Iโ€™ve been experimenting with something entirely new on behalf of ALL my parts. Especially the ones Iโ€™ve suppressed most of my life. I always imagined that I was a bit like Ted Lasso- but I think the real me is more Roy Fucking Kent.  โ€ฆ [read more]

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Breath is your BFF, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Love, Meditation, Personal, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Unarmored

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish.

March 28, 2023

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Hereโ€™s my example this morning:   I start to journalโ€ฆ โ€œwhat if XYZ was possibleโ€ฆ โ€œ and then I get smacked in the head with, โ€œbut love what is.โ€   Well, which is it? Love what isโ€ฆ [read more]

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Achievement and Success, ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, Conversations, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

You Think Too Much

March 14, 2023

No shit. I am 1000000% aware of this. And Iโ€™m done being ashamed of my overthinking parts. Before I get to making my list of the things I adore and love about โ€œthinking too much,โ€ โ€“ let me tell anyone who considers saying this toโ€ฆ [read more]

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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