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Writing and Talking like Forrest Gump Runs

September 22, 2022

I write and talk like Forrest Gump runs, runs, and runs.     I run my mouth out loud, sometimes in straight lines and often in zig-zags and circles. Often, I run my mouth or words out loud. Maybe for the same reason, some people… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork

Gen X – Faith v. Trust

March 6, 2022

Hey, Hey, I have an important distinction for my recovering overachiever, high performing Gen X business people who also grew up or maybe are still in faith-based communities. Faith versus trust.  We mix those two up. We mix faith and trust up. Faith is something… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Client Stories, Coaching, Conversations, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork

Some Business Strategy Fire for your wet wood

March 1, 2022

Hello Hello!  So here’s the thing… y’all know. Y’all know, don’t you?  You know, you know exactly what you need to do to hit the result you need. Let’s tell some fucking truth to yourself about why you’re not getting the results. Tell yourself the… [read more]

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How To Create Content Gold – especially when you aren’t feeling that creative

November 22, 2021

Hey Hey! I am excited today to bring you this episode. It is actually a β€œhow to” episode. I want to share with you a tool I created that I use in my business that comes in handy when there are ebbs.  All you need… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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#155: How to Create Content Gold Share Your Heart Show Your Work Style

November 18, 2021

Episode 155 of the Better Life Better Work show and I have a heart-centered business system and tool for you today. Grab a notebook and get ready to write a few things down. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Biz Secrets, FB Live, Leadership, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Self Leadership, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success, The Be Team

12 Sustainable Business Values For Authentic Small Biz Owners

June 8, 2021

12 Sustainable Business Values For Authentic Small Biz Owners – There is so much NOISE in the online space. Comparison, slick scarcity sales, and dupery are rampant. These are 12 things I know aren’t often Sexy but that work – and keep me in integrity…. [read more]

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Soulie Debrief: Human Leadership

June 21, 2020

Let’s talk about feeling fried.  All around us we have events occurring that are changing our set point, how we interact, and honestly, how our hearts and energy are affected.  This week I’m just feeling fried by it all. I’m feeling tired and sad and… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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Hollywood, Texas: a novella by Bill Flanigin

December 11, 2019

I’m honored to share my husband and his work with you as a bonus episode! Join Bill Flanigin, author,  and me, as we talk writing process, and his new novella Hollywood, Texas.  I’ve seen his process and practice from idea to published author – now… [read more]

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πŸ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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πŸ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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