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Achievement and Success, ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Coaching, Deconstructing Systems, Marketing Tips, Self Trust, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

Attractor vs Enroller: A Distinction for Us Both

August 25, 2024

A distinction for your consideration: Attractor vs. Enroller   Yesterday was a bingo ball day where all my ideas just bounced around in the bingo ball hopper – none fully dropped into the final chute. I looked through some recent journals to slow down and… [read more]

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ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Coaching, Conversations, Depression, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Wild Edges of Being Human

An ADHD Update

August 27, 2023

Hello Human Podcast Listeners! Today I want to share a little behind the scenes ADHD update. This is kind of personal. It’s a behind the scenes episodes of being a small business owner, being a coaching practice owner who is also navigating the Wild Edges… [read more]

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ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Why I’m No longer an Optimist And What I Am Instead

August 10, 2023

Hello Humans, another Road Riff Episode! I use to consider myself an optimist.  I still tend to have some of these qualities. I tend to see the best in people. I’m able to see the best in people. Sometimes to my detriment. My identity for… [read more]

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The Wild Edge Of Being Human Podcast #205 on Emotions, ADHD, and Motivation with Allison Crow
ADHD Women, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Emotions, Life, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Purpose, Wild Edges of Being Human

Emotions, ADHD & Motivation – A Convergence of Ideas

July 30, 2023

Emotions, ADHD & Motivation – A Convergence of Ideas Hi Y’all! I’ve been meaning to do an ADHD podcast for over a year and I saw this quote today by Tami Simon from Sounds True, “Sometimes only the answer is found through living life.” When… [read more]

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Ep: 198 – Updates

May 21, 2023

  Hello Humans!  Who else has been wild edging through transitions and wobbles!  I made you a check in episode – to let you know a bit of the behind the scenes as we sort our shit out with laughter and compassion! Lots of little… [read more]

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by allisoncrow 
ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, IFS Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion

ADHD Journal Update – Med Changes and Insights

March 29, 2023

ADHD journal post: I was diagnosed 13 months ago. Only recently have I had the mental and emotional space to gently soak in some learning.   over the last decade out of necessity I have developed a pretty boring routine of nourishing practices and routines… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, Conversations, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

You Think Too Much

March 14, 2023

No shit. I am 1000000% aware of this. And Iโ€™m done being ashamed of my overthinking parts. Before I get to making my list of the things I adore and love about โ€œthinking too much,โ€ – let me tell anyone who considers saying this to… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Biz Secrets, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

The #1 Thing That Keeps People Stuck

February 10, 2023

Coaching is an art and science of behavior change, and wouldnโ€™t it be fun if it were actually as easy as โ€œchange your thinking, change your life?โ€  (And yes, I believed it was that simple for years- I’m sorry). Just changing our thinking is a… [read more]

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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