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Get Out of The House and Magic Happens – A road riff episode

March 19, 2023

Hey, this is Allison and this is a two part episode. The first part I recorded as a road riff, and it’s about the magic of getting out of the house. Then stay tuned for what the Magic Act really was. I wanna tell you… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Grief, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Managing Energy, Marketing Tips, Mindset and Thinking, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Social Media, Soul-Full Success

Struggling with the Social Media Marketing Machine

February 17, 2023

An insight about my creative process that may point you to insights about your own creative process:   When I openly acknowledge the hard and I can compassionately witness myself and even the tiniest of suffering, the hard often lifts within a few days. It… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Client Stories, Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

What to Know About the Place Between Where You are and Where You Want to Go

February 17, 2023

In conversation with my coach (and my therapist) – when I tap into the clarity of where Iโ€™m pulled to BECOME, the light shows up in my eyes in one instant, and then in the next, I hit the gaping space between where I am… [read more]

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Anxiety, Art, Care of the Soul, Expressive Arts, Mindset and Thinking, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, The Body Always Knows, Wild Edges of Being Human

Step into the Making to Get Out of Your Head

January 4, 2023

Itโ€™s post-book launch. I still show up for my writing practice group most days. My favorite dog has died, the year has ended, and my nervous system is slowly recuperating from a year of challenge after challenge. My writing coach asks each of us, โ€œWhat… [read more]

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Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Creative Practice, Emotions, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

Let go to be in the moment

November 29, 2022

Tone: peaceful   Bianca Forte is the choice today. Carmel Cookie is my go-to.   For the last few months, Iโ€™ve been waking up with slightly anxious parts going through all the things pressing on me. Anxiety in the early morning is new for me…. [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Compassionate Inquiry, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, The Body Always Knows, Wild Edges of Being Human

It Can Be Safe to Feel

November 22, 2022

Something BRILLIANT my therapist helped me see.   “I am safe, AND I am feeling ______.” There were moments in this post-heart attack and post-hard-ass emotional summer – that I felt NOT OK. The subconscious sensation of my difficult emotions and thoughts was that I… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Remember, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Your Leaders are Mortal

November 7, 2022

Your leaders, whether they show it or not, are human. After my heart attack – one of my former clients sent me a message saying, “I love you, and your heart attack scared the shit out of me because I relate to you & can’t… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Compassionate Inquiry, Depression, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

For my fellow leaders who are highly sensitive and overthink often.

November 4, 2022

Sensitivity and Overthinking. These two qualities are deep in the cells in my body and way of being. They are not only my biggest struggles. They are also my truly greatest strengths.     They do not always fit nicely in a โ€œcontained & performative culture.โ€ … [read more]

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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