Feeling Like You’ve Lost Your Confidence in Midlife? It can be discombobulating. Here’s Why—and What to Do About It. It’s not uncommon to feel a loss of confidence, especially during times of transition, change, or stress. What we call “confidence” in the past was often… [read more]
Midlife Wandering – Where Am I Going
Almost two years ago, my book on learning to live with an unarmored heart was published. 2 years ago yesterday, I had an NSTMI heart attack and spent three days in the hospital while the doctors tried to figure out what was going on. Talk… [read more]
UNLEARNING (In my journal)
Today is one of those days when all the dots connect, and I can see how the past has led me to now. My now is ordinary; there is no monumental milestone or achievement. There is nothing to brag about, nothing you will admire… [read more]
Bug Soup & Updates
Hello Hello Humans! I feel like a little kid getting back on a bicycle, It’s been a couple of months since I podcasted. Bug Soup is the time during chrysalis when the caterpillar disintegrates and devolves and physically, materially turns into an gooey mess before… [read more]
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Scribble Days are More Than Good Enough
Despite what the gurus and social feeds suggest, it can be pretty scribbly to do the nurturing practices that support us. Some days it IS easy – and just know that if some days, it feels more like this photo – you are not alone…. [read more]
Life is Suffering – And Hummingbirds
Life is suffering – AND. Yup – both and again. You know those plastic shit hummingbird feeders? The ones that need to be cleaned every week because they can get moldy and kill the birds? The ones that make a big sugary mess in… [read more]
Tanya Markul Poem That Says So Much
“When I realized my pain came from wanting to be liked, I began to love myself. When I realised my pain came from wanting to be acknowledged, I started to see who I really was…” This poem by Tanya Markul is a beautiful expression… [read more]
You Forget. It’s Not Your Fault & Here is What to do About it.
Because you are human, because you live in a society whose systems are set up to make you forget – remembering can be your most vital practice. Seriously, you aren’t broken; you’ve done nothing wrong – our systems literally are built on you out-sourcing your… [read more]