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Authentic Leadership, Creative Living, Creative Practice, Deconstructing Systems, Leadership, My Mentors, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Trust

Do your Leaders Invite You to Self Trust Like Rick Rubin (And Me)

August 22, 2024

SELF- Trust:   As a coach- my clients often hear me say:   You can accept, modify, or reject I’ll lay this idea/suggestion on the table, and you can pick it up or leave it there. I am not the boss of you. I believe… [read more]

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Art, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Creative Practice, Emotions, Life, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Wild Edges of Being Human

A Two Fridas Reading from Art is About Being Whole: A Memoir By Cindy Ingram

November 5, 2023

Hello Humans! Thank you for your grace while I took some time and space.  For the last four years I have been in writing practice with my publisher and write as a group One of my former clients and now friend and fellow author colleague… [read more]

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Art, Care of the Soul, Creative Living, Creative Practice, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Wild Edges of Being Human

Scribble Days are More Than Good Enough

October 27, 2023

Despite what the gurus and social feeds suggest, it can be pretty scribbly to do the nurturing practices that support us. Some days it IS easy – and just know that if some days, it feels more like this photo – you are not alone…. [read more]

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Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership

A Part of Me this & A Part of Me that

August 4, 2023

𝗔 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 & 𝗔 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 “All Parts Welcome” Have you ever had the experience of making a decision, and in your thinking, you have a part that has one strong opinion about your decision, and then from another side… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Conversations, Creative Practice, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human, Writing Life

Heather Doyle Frasier: The Practice of Compassionate Writing

July 26, 2023

Episode 204 Heather Doyle Frasier: The Practice of Compassionate Writing Writer, Coach, Renaissance Woman, Lover of Books Publisher of Compassionate Mind Collaborative and a singer.  After having worked in the traditional publishing industry as a development editor, Heather saw the humanity missing from the industry…. [read more]

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Creative Living, Creative Practice, Everyday Magic, Follow & Feel Your Heart, journal, Life, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal, Sacred Journeys, Wild Edges of Being Human, Writing Life

In a Romantic Relationship with My Desk? Why Yes

June 28, 2023

She’s lived in every home I’ve owned and briefly been loaned to each of my husbands as I experimented with other working spaces (does anyone remember my haunted antique lawyer d esk?). She is back in my space, my studio, my office, and deeply in… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Breath is your BFF, Care of the Soul, Creative Practice, Deconstructing Systems, journal, Managing Energy, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Remember, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Success, The Body Always Knows, Wild Edges of Being Human, Writing Life

You Forget. It’s Not Your Fault & Here is What to do About it.

June 7, 2023

Because you are human, because you live in a society whose systems are set up to make you forget – remembering can be your most vital practice. Seriously, you aren’t broken; you’ve done nothing wrong – our systems literally are built on you out-sourcing your… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, Deconstructing Systems, HEART, IFS Coaching, journal, Managing Energy, Meditation, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal, Personal Growth, Practice, Renewal, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership

Allowing the Space for Heart Coherence

May 30, 2023

  Tone: deep contentment, mostly.   There’s an extra space this morning.   After the Soulies closing ceremony (my primary coaching work container over the last 7 years), and after deleting almost ALL of my old fb groups (one for every group program I’ve done… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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