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ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Coaching, Conversations, Depression, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Wild Edges of Being Human

An ADHD Update

August 27, 2023

Hello Human Podcast Listeners! Today I want to share a little behind the scenes ADHD update. This is kind of personal. It’s a behind the scenes episodes of being a small business owner, being a coaching practice owner who is also navigating the Wild Edges… [read more]

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Allison peeking out from behind the book ADHD Figuring it OUt Step By Step; An A-Z by Leanne Maskell
ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Depression, Emotions, Personal Growth, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

Behind the Scenes of ADHD

January 31, 2023

  There’s an ADHD meme over on LinkedIn that is getting tons of traction. It’s funny because it is true. Many days living with an ADHD brain feels creative and fun, and yeah – it’s easy to make lots of jokes. Because ADHD and neurodivergence… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Conversations, Depression, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Retreat, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

The Practice of Tending

January 29, 2023

Today’s episode is about the practice of tending. I wanna tell you a story of how I went from depression to the most creative productivity in a very holy way, not a way of scarcity. Though I might feel a bit rusty and stiff, tending… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Depression, Love, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Source, Spirituality, Wild Edges of Being Human

I tossed an entire prayer book into the trash

December 19, 2022

I just tossed an entire book into the recycle bin. So much for that prayerful meditation. I opened a prayer book to a random page – and it landed on a prayer for “emotional distress.” And the line that pissed me off was this: “I… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Compassionate Inquiry, Depression, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

For my fellow leaders who are highly sensitive and overthink often.

November 4, 2022

Sensitivity and Overthinking. These two qualities are deep in the cells in my body and way of being. They are not only my biggest struggles. They are also my truly greatest strengths.     They do not always fit nicely in a β€œcontained & performative culture.” … [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Depression, Emotions, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast

Fire Ants & Embodied Emotions

December 5, 2021

Hello, Smart and Soulful Business Owners I’ve been learning some stuff and I’m going to share it with you because I want you to learn it too and I don’t want it to have to take you 50 years to learn. What I want to… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Breath is your BFF, Conversations, Depression, Emotions, Expressive Arts, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success, Soul-Work, The Body Always Knows, Transformation

Being Smart, and where traditional coaching failed, and what helped.

July 16, 2021

For 49 years I’ve been too smart for my own good. I’m a lifelong student and always will be. My intellectual prowess has always given me a sense of safety and security. For most of my life, this was unconscious and now I see. I… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Depression, Expressive Arts, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living

One Thing Smart People Forget to Do

April 21, 2021

Hey smart people… this one is for YOU. For the first 42 years of my life- KNOWING shit and managing my mind protected and propelled me.   Critical thinking, research, learning everything I could about whatever I was interested in brought me success, power, position…. [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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