Who are my fellow humans with strong and vocal Overthinking Parts? (I capitalize these to represent the personification of these parts of us). Overthinking is a conversation with oneself that too often goes unmonitored. As those thoughts can run amok, they can activate even more… [read more]
Unveiling the Invisible Outside and Inside: Understanding Systems and Coping Mechanisms
In the intricate tapestry of our lives, there exists a phenomenon often overlooked but profoundly influential – invisible systems. Like silent puppeteers, these systems shape our thoughts, behaviors, and interactions without us even realizing their presence. And without even realizing it, we develop coping… [read more]
Punching People In The Face
The more I meet myself (and my parts), the less I want to punch other people in the face. Most of us are conditioned to despise, fear, and suppress “negative emotions.” I don’t believe that any emotions are negative. I believe they have wisdom… [read more]
If You Can’t Lead Clients with SELF-TRUST What is the Real Agenda in Coaching?
A few months ago, I was offered a partnership as the VP of a newly organized and practically guaranteed-to-be profitable corporate coaching company. It was flattering, of course, as my years of expertise and effectiveness as a coach were what had this person want me… [read more]
4 Elements that Make Up Our Inner Systems In the Internal Family Systems Framework
𝟰 𝗘𝗹𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗨𝗽 𝗢𝘂𝗿 𝗜𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝗦𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗙𝗮𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗦𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺𝘀 𝗙𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸 💛 𝗔 𝗰𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙 😢 𝗘𝘅𝗶𝗹𝗲𝘀 🗣️ 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗿 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗿𝘀: 🧑🚒 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗿 𝗙𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀 Today I’ll introduce the Core SELF. 💛 𝗔 𝗰𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙– SELF is the natural leader of… [read more]
A Part of Me this & A Part of Me that
𝗔 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 & 𝗔 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗠𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗮𝘁 “All Parts Welcome” Have you ever had the experience of making a decision, and in your thinking, you have a part that has one strong opinion about your decision, and then from another side… [read more]
Tanya Markul Poem That Says So Much
“When I realized my pain came from wanting to be liked, I began to love myself. When I realised my pain came from wanting to be acknowledged, I started to see who I really was…” This poem by Tanya Markul is a beautiful expression… [read more]
The Practice of Connection over Control
Episode 203 – The Practice of Connection over Control Another road riff episode! It’s Sunday morning, 8:23 am as I record this and I’m heading out to my therapeutic horseback riding lessons. After a difficult week, I’ve got some insights and lessons settling… [read more]
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