Allison Crow

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Alignment, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Remember, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human, Writing Life

Tanya Markul Poem That Says So Much

July 14, 2023

  “When I realized my pain came from wanting to be liked, I began to love myself. When I realised my pain came from wanting to be acknowledged, I started to see who I really was…” This poem by Tanya Markul is a beautiful expression… [read more]

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Breath is your BFF, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Love, Meditation, Personal, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Unarmored

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish.

March 28, 2023

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Here’s my example this morning:   I start to journal… “what if XYZ was possible… “ and then I get smacked in the head with, “but love what is.”   Well, which is it? Love what is… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Creative Practice, Inner Whisper, Leadership, Managing Energy, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support

Trust Your Practices and Process over the Man Made Dates

January 19, 2023

I can trust practices and processes. When I try to shove them into a calendar or deadline – the processes and practices get detoured by “I’m doing it wrong.” I have nurturing practices -that I KNOW bring me to clarity, confidence, and action. I have… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Online Business, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Remember, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

Fuck the Coaching Industry

December 14, 2022

My mind was so full of inspiration this morning. She wanted to go in about 17 different directions, listen to two different podcasts and one audiobook, and write 27 things for you.   Happy Mind, full of intention, running a bit fast.   Slow down,… [read more]

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Creative Practice, Expressive Arts, Inner Whisper, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Meditation, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living

Pick Your Creative Practice Back Up

October 17, 2022

For some reason, I had a block in my head that made me believe my “intuitive painting” and “expressive arts” were only done with acrylic or tempura paints.   I don’t know what fucking planet I was on, but – this glorious practice can be… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Breath is your BFF, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, Self Leadership

Connect with your SELF

March 13, 2022

Self Connection: Take a moment to pause and connect in your body, your heart….your breath, and listen for YOUR truth. We are taught to demonize and pathologize any “resistance, “block,” or difficult emotion – these are NOT problems to solve..they are opportunities for SELF-connection.  … [read more]

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Anxiety, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth

Deep Inner-Work – Both/AND

October 21, 2021

If you are doing deep inner work, transformational work- I see you and honor you and GET that it’s a scribbly-rollercoaster ride of ups-down-all-around. I get that it can be heavy being with some of these parts. Today I want to remind you that both… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Emotions, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Inner Whisper, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Remember, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Too Much Woman

Drop Below Your Head to Inner Authority

October 20, 2021

  Inner Authority: hello fellow recovering people pleasers. Hello, over-functioning and over-empathic leaders.   All these things work until they don’t… and now here you are realizing so much of what made you successful was behavioral patterns born out of childhood trauma, emotional neglect…. And… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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