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Authentic Leadership, Creative Living, Creative Practice, Deconstructing Systems, Leadership, My Mentors, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Trust

Do your Leaders Invite You to Self Trust Like Rick Rubin (And Me)

August 22, 2024

SELF- Trust:   As a coach- my clients often hear me say:   You can accept, modify, or reject Iโ€™ll lay this idea/suggestion on the table, and you can pick it up or leave it there. I am not the boss of you. I believe… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, My Mentors, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Compassion, Self Trust, The Body Always Knows, Transformation, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Lessons Learned from Gabor Mate & Compassionate Inquiry

June 30, 2024

Welcome back! In today’s episode, I delve into lessons Iโ€™ve learned from one of my favorite teachers and approaches ~ Gabor Matรฉ and Compassionate Inquiry.  I explore his method as a facilitator, the importance of gaining consent, his views on addiction as attempts to solve… [read more]

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Podcast Cover Art for Episode 212: Insights from Reblooming my business. Allison with a background of texas purple mountain laurel blooms.
Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Money, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

Insights From Re-Blooming My Business

March 11, 2024

Allison shares her personal journey of reinventing herself and her business, discussing her struggles, coping mechanisms, and the need for genuine connections. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s needs and cycles, challenging toxic individualism, and finding what works authentically for oneself in business and… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Ease from the Inside out Podcast episode with allison sitting in relaxed position on a bench.
Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Coaching, Conversations, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Wild Edges of Being Human

EASE From The Inside Out

February 22, 2024

  It’s Road Riff time – Ease from the Inside Out. I’ve had some really interesting, unusual resistance around content creation and I didn’t have an “episode,” but I did have a drive into town  Stream of Consciousness with a Purpose and More at Ease… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Allison Holding up a sticker that says Stop Trying to NOT Be HUMAN. This image also has the title of episode 210 Procrastination or Parts: The Mind Fu&K of Starting Again.
Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, Coaching, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Procrastination or Parts: The Mind Fu&k of Starting Again

February 11, 2024

Yikes – Is it Procrastination or Parts- I’m jumping back into making podcast episodes for you!  I’m just going to allow myself to be imperfect in getting back into the routine I love creating content for y’all  I’ve always loved creating content for y’all and… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
A chart that reads Resilience as a heading with 3 points underneath. 1. Self Trust. 2. Courage. 3. Willingness to be uncomfortable.
Achievement and Success, Coaching, Deconstructing Systems, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Self Leadership, Self Trust

If You Can’t Lead Clients with SELF-TRUST What is the Real Agenda in Coaching?

October 23, 2023

A few months ago, I was offered a partnership as the VP of a newly organized and practically guaranteed-to-be profitable corporate coaching company. It was flattering, of course, as my years of expertise and effectiveness as a coach were what had this person want me… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
ADHD Women, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Why I’m No longer an Optimist And What I Am Instead

August 10, 2023

Hello Humans, another Road Riff Episode! I use to consider myself an optimist.  I still tend to have some of these qualities. I tend to see the best in people. I’m able to see the best in people. Sometimes to my detriment. My identity for… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Allison sitting in a yellow chair with a big smile holding a giant gold heart-shaped pillow in her arms.
Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Breath is your BFF, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Love, Managing Energy, Personal Growth, Self Leadership

4 Elements that Make Up Our Inner Systems In the Internal Family Systems Framework

August 5, 2023

  ๐Ÿฐ ๐—˜๐—น๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—จ๐—ฝ ๐—ข๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ  ๐Ÿ’› ๐—” ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™ ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€: ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿš’ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ Today I’ll introduce the Core SELF. ๐Ÿ’› ๐—” ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™โ€“ SELF is the natural leader of… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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