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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Breath is your BFF, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Love, Managing Energy, Personal Growth, Self Leadership

4 Elements that Make Up Our Inner Systems In the Internal Family Systems Framework

August 5, 2023

  ๐Ÿฐ ๐—˜๐—น๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—จ๐—ฝ ๐—ข๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ  ๐Ÿ’› ๐—” ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™ ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€: ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿš’ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ Today I’ll introduce the Core SELF. ๐Ÿ’› ๐—” ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™โ€“ SELF is the natural leader of… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Client Stories, Conversations, Life, Life Coaching, Love, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Sacred Journeys, Too Much Woman, Wild Edges of Being Human, Writing Life

Dreaming in Spanish & Writing Your Story With Sara Alvarado

June 28, 2023

Dreaming in Spanish with Sara Alvarado (and writing your story). Live, it’s Allison Crow and Sara Alvarado! We are going to be talking about telling your story and Sara’s new book, Dreaming In Spanish: An Unexpected Love Story in Puerto Vallarta. I adored this book!… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Breath is your BFF, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Love, Meditation, Personal, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Unarmored

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish.

March 28, 2023

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Here’s my example this morning:   I start to journal… “what if XYZ was possible… “ and then I get smacked in the head with, “but love what is.”   Well, which is it? Love what is… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Emotions, Grief, HEART, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Love, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Wild Edge Of Being Human: Musings on Grief.

January 12, 2023

Grief does not feel like the wisest business strategy lately – Especially as a coach – A small protector part of me -influenced by “perfection only” past mentors, feels this deep obligation to be cheery and “positive.” (Those same mentors always “shoulded” that concise was… [read more]

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I tossed an entire prayer book into the trash

December 19, 2022

I just tossed an entire book into the recycle bin. So much for that prayerful meditation. I opened a prayer book to a random page – and it landed on a prayer for “emotional distress.” And the line that pissed me off was this: “I… [read more]

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Behind the Curtain, Emotions, Life, Love, My Mentors, Personal, Sacred Journeys

Thoughts on Never Having Had Children Of My Own

January 2, 2022

I saw this post this morning and cried. It hit a hope for me — a deep desire. To give and receive so much love until the end of days- even though I never had children of my own. I recently saw a clip where… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, HEART, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Love, Managing Energy, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Transformation

Qualities of SELF – Internal Family Systems

July 13, 2021

When I began studying SELF-Leadership and SELF-Trust even more intently, I had no idea what #internalfamilysystems was. And yetโ€ฆ right thereโ€ฆ. SELF. This work has brought me to, and can bring you to, a deeper meeting of your SELF and all your partsโ€ฆ. Parts are all these… [read more]

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What if You FULLY Trusted Yourself

April 22, 2021

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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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